If he told me that he no longer "desires me", does that mean that he's finally gone forever?

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#1 Dec 27 - 4PM
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If he told me that he no longer "desires me", does that mean that he's finally gone forever?

My former N uses women to make himself look good. They have to be the prettiest, super model gorgeous! He himself is at best okay-looking. Since he told me that I'm no longer attractive (I have gained a lot of weight), does that mean that I am finally PERMANENTLY off his supply radar? This idealizing, then D & D has been going on for DECADES now! Am I finally rid of him? Looks are everything to him, if I'm no longer model-beautiful, what need would he have with me?

Dec 28 - 11AM
WantThePain2End (not verified)
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It's not about him finding me attractive.

Dec 28 - 12PM (Reply to #11)
Willow
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It's really quite something

Dec 28 - 8AM
Janie53
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Wantthepain2end

Dec 28 - 5AM
Goldie
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Hmmmm

Dec 28 - 8AM (Reply to #8)
Abigail
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On self doubt and self blame

Dec 27 - 10PM
boomer14
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he is done when YOU are done!

Dec 27 - 6PM
ItsFinallytime
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There is absolutely no way

Dec 28 - 2AM (Reply to #5)
Luv2bme
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From my understanding..

Dec 27 - 7PM (Reply to #4)
WantThePain2End (not verified)
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Have not heard from him in a year.

Dec 27 - 5PM
jjj1984
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Totally agree with last

Dec 27 - 5PM
Luv2bme
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My opinion..,