Just got Narced by a female friend who came to stay.

Fooled, I was also Narced by a female friend, MANY times. I met her when I was in 7th grade, and right from the start, she had NO problems dating anyone I liked. At the time, I was too young and naive to think badly of her for this. I just figured, oh well, if we both like a guy and he ends up liking her instead of me, not much I can do about that. Over the 20+ years that we were friends, I did her many favors. But then, once, when I was sick, and after watching her kids for a few hours as a favor to her, I asked her, upon picking her kids up, if she would mind running to the store for me to get milk and bread. She made up some silly excuse that she couldn't do it because she needed to be home before her husband got home from work that night. It was THEN that I started getting a clue that our relationship was pretty one-sided. Still, I remained friends with her, until she said something in front of me where she implied that I had a thing going with her husband. I was so pissed! I mean, maybe she's low enough to date someone that I was interested in, but I would NEVER have done anything with her husband and never wanted to! This man is a raging alcoholic who can't even get up from the couch in the middle of the night to use the bathroom. This is because he's so drunk out of his mind that he can't even wake up enough to know he has to urinate, so he just does it in his sleep, and she ends up having to wash the cushions on the sofa like 2 or 3 times a week! Why the hell would I want someone like that??? And even if I did want him, I certainly would not ever put our relationship in jeopardy over it. So I sent her a long letter, explaining that I didn't want to be friends with her anymore, and why. After sending the letter, I went NC with her. But then I ran into her years later, about 2 years ago & decided to just be friendly and talk to her. She explained that her lover, the man she'd been having an affair with for about 14 years, had died unexpectedly a few months before. I felt so badly for her & almost started crying, as I knew this man was a way better person than her husband, and that because she stayed w/her hubby until her kids were all over 18, she'd missed her chance to be with the boyfriend. Her youngest child turned 18 just a few months before the boyfriend died, and when he passed away, she had already told her hubby that she was leaving him and started packing up her things to go move in with the boyfriend! She waited 14 years to be with him, putting her own needs aside for the sake of her children and not wanting to split up her family. And then, just as she started getting ready to do what she always wanted to do, the poor boyfriend ends up dying on her. I felt so horrible for her that she made a sacrifice for so many years and never really got her payoff for it. So I MADE her a nice sympathy card on my computer and delivered it to her at work the next day. I told her that I was sorry for the letter I wrote her years before and that she should feel free to contact me for anything, especially if she needed some support in grieving her loss. I gave her my phone number, my address and my email address. And guess what? She never even called, emailed or stopped by my house to thank me for the card or for being willing to re-kindle our friendship after what she'd done to me. Back to NC it is. They name streets after people this - ONE WAY!