Just when you think they have discovered the worst!

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#1 Oct 16 - 10AM
tooloyal
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Just when you think they have discovered the worst!

My exN was often pretty open about having emotional relationships with other women when we were together. I counted these as supply and didn't worry about them too much as they lived in other countries.

Since I found out I was pregnant, he wanted an abortion or he wanted out of the relationship. I said goodbye to him. He has not inquired about my well being or for the baby a single time.

Even though I no longer love him or want a relationship with him, his actions never cease to amaze me.

He moved out 3 months ago and I just found out yesterday that he was inviting people off the internet(men and women) over to my apartment for sex while I was at work.

I promptly called him up. He denied it. I told him that we are grown up, we shall never be together again, why can't he just admit to his actions. I have proof in the form of emails he sent to these people.

He refused to "argue" and instead wanted to talk about me violating "his" privacy by check his mail. No word on his violating my home and my trust when I was supporting him.

I just wanted to write this so that others here that are still clinging to hope for their exN, that they aren't worth it. They are not normal people with normal feelings. I'm so glad that I no longer fall apart when I find out yet another lie, I just get angry. Perhaps one day I won't even care.

Oct 17 - 1PM
tooloyal
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Just to clarify, I didn't

Oct 17 - 3PM (Reply to #9)
Done sourcing
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You gave him attention and

Oct 17 - 2PM (Reply to #8)
Used
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His image is everything to

Oct 17 - 8AM
Dallas
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Hi Tooloyal

Oct 16 - 4PM
talktothehand
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Tooloyal

Oct 16 - 11AM
Used
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tooloyal

Oct 16 - 11AM
Hunter
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"I promptly called him up. He

Oct 16 - 10AM
spinning
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TL, maybe this can help you

spinning

Oct 16 - 10AM
thebigpayback
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thanks for the reminder.