Let's all swap narcs

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#1 Jun 1 - 1PM
dudette
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Let's all swap narcs

and exact each other's revenge by playing them at their own games and driving them insane ....

Or is it just me being flippant?
Varknin says that Narcs can be very easily manipulated by those who know how to play the game ...

just a thought.....

Jun 2 - 8AM
Lobo555
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Take my narc. . . please!

I'll be here all week! :):):):) Seriously, no one would want mine! CharlieSheenWinning -- yeah, his nickname says it all! Tiger blood and Adonis DNA plus alcoholism, homelessness, and a new WinningWife! Hooooaahhhh!
Jun 2 - 2AM
dudette
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ha ha ladies

it felt like a good idea last night but frankly, the more I think about our ex narcs and the more you describe them, the less appealing the idea becomes LOL ha ha ha Dx
Jun 1 - 8PM
Sparrow
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Mine is kind of cute, nice

Mine is kind of cute, nice lean build, athletic, strong, with 6 pack abs. When my ex husband left, I swore my next man would have a six pack. Well, I got the six pack, honestly, the only 6 pack I crave now, I buy at the liquor store! I got my revenge. Every book I read told me I would never win. I was damn determined. I have never been so angry in my life. How dare I be hunted like an animal by this man.............I exposed him, it felt great but also afterwards I started to get scared because you just never really know these men and what they are capable of. But in the end, I can say, I am glad that he knows that I unmasked him. He has hunted most of his adult life, and this girl didn't appreciate it one bit!
Jun 2 - 8AM (Reply to #24)
SoaperGirl
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Good for you Sparrow! It's no good to be living in fear!

Yup, I exposed my narc too! First off: He's now a permanent resident of Cheaterville: http://cheaterville.com/?page=cheaters&id=3184, He's on my blog: http://soapergirl.blogspot.com/. I've exposed him to his current OW. At least I've tried to give her the tools and knowledge to survive. What she does with them is up to her! Also, I ran him off his website of recent years, I've cost him hundreds if not thousands of dollars, and he still can't touch me because I speak the truth and what others know to be the truth. I also have hard core evidence to back my claims. I can prove what I speak of. This has all increased the rate of my healing. I don't feel enraged and angry anymore. I've learned he's just a scared little man of no consequence. He is nothing, trash, a piece of shit, garbage. Now, I'd be happy to just forget him. My obsessive thoughts of him are fading, I'm healing and moving on. I notice that I'm spending less time here due to a desire to make changes in my life and move forward. I'm looking for a new romance and new job with power, prestige and a nice salary and to improve my life. Life is good! Yes, I'm happy now! Revenge really is sweet!
Jun 1 - 9PM (Reply to #23)
wacaet
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I emailed his wife and two OW

I emailed his wife and two OW all the evidence I collected from his email. Then I got scared as hell that he'd do something to get back at me. He sent one threatening text but my husband squelched that by calling him and telling him to leave me alone. He apologized via text to my husband and that was the last of it, that was about 6 weeks ago. Honestly, I don't even know if his wife got my email or if that was another lie (he could have intercepted it). I think I got all the "revenge" I'm going to get. If I could do it again, I'd not email anyone at all. I wish I had just quietly disappeared from his life and never even let him know what I'd found out. Knowing what I know about N's now, I think that would have been the best mind fuck of all. Well, maybe I'd still email the one OW, she was really nice and shocked and disgusted and she "deleted" him from her life immediately. She didn't want to come here because she said it wasn't valid to her to waste one more minute of her time thinking about him. I'm not that strong, I need this place to help me stay focused.
Jun 1 - 8PM
Steph
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what is crazy is that if we

what is crazy is that if we put on a blindfold.....we wouldn't know we were with a different man! With the exception of appearance....they esentially are all the SAME!!
Jun 1 - 8PM
Hunter
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Good Idea!! I lIkie

Good Idea!! I lIkie
Jun 1 - 6PM
enpsychopedia r... (not verified)
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Am doing this

Oh yes, they are so gullible so susceptible to flattery. I think that everything lacks reality for them, not just other people but themselves and their lives. They are described as not being insane, but it seems to me they are stuck halfway between lucid dream and what we call real life. Yes, very very easy to propagandize. The Nazis were defeated largely due to cultural narcissism in WW2. They thought they were much too clever for anyone to ever pull the wool over their eyes, and that was their undoing. That kind of complacency, born out of arrogance is the narc's Waterloo. I think taking the piss out of a few narcs isn't a bad idea. Different strokes for different folks. It's only a good idea if it builds us up, reduces obsession and helps us heal. So whose narc gets to sit on the first whoppee cushion? Vilde's?
Jun 1 - 7PM (Reply to #18)
helldweller
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switching narcs

dudette, love this. You are all free to pounce on my narc, Judge Dickless Pedophile, Jr. You'll have to touch up his hair dye job. And don't try to put sunscreen on him because he'll hit you. His face looks like the Crypt Keeper's and he needs forty-seven dollars worth of Marlboros, 27 dollars worth of Skyy and an hour minimum of anus licking a day, but he's a keeper. Someone posted on here last week that they are just messing with the narc to keep him unstable, so while I am now doing quite nicely getting over him (despite being broke) I have jeered at him publiclya few times the past few days, just general mocking, and stood right next to him on the playground when he was talking to another mom, just to f with him. It's actually quite fun. Sorry.
Jun 1 - 8PM (Reply to #19)
Sparrow
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Hell dweller, your man sounds

Hell dweller, your man sounds like a dream come true. All kidding aside, you must be thrilled to be rid off him!
Jun 1 - 5PM
booboo35
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My ex narc Big 6ft4

My ex narc Big 6ft4 alkie With added cocaine addiction & porn addiction too!! Feet smell like a dead body, Has not got a pot to piss in as he pisses and snorts his money up the wall. 1 snaggle tooth left in his ugly gob. Got a nose shaped like a concorde. Will show you love and affection but comes at a price, Comes Guaranteed to leave you feeling worthless and screw you over!!!

STAY STRONG!! XX

Jun 1 - 6PM (Reply to #16)
enpsychopedia r... (not verified)
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Feet smell like a dead body--booboo35

Only one thnaggle tooth? I gueth that meanth we won't be French kithing! Nose shaped like a concorde. Oh lord! Lemme at him!
Jun 1 - 4PM
Alibi_10
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Narc for trade

Description: Very short, vain, bad-tempered, word-salad merchant. If you are looking for someone to confuse the hell out of you, gaslight you, project his moods onto you, D&D the hell out of you, flip-flop and change his mind at the drop of a hat, treat you long periods of silence then scream and rage at you over the oddest thing ... then there is one available RIGHT NOW. Oh - but buyers beware. He IS an imitation !! Price: Sanity
Jun 1 - 6PM (Reply to #14)
Susan32
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He's a real Sizzler...

With a word salad buffet!
Jun 1 - 4PM
SoaperGirl
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Dudette, you are hilarious

I'm sitting here, giggling away....trade narcs. Okay, you can have my pot-bellied, balding, senior citizen narc. Just remember to give him his nightly enema and put a diaper on his butt. hahaha.
Jun 1 - 4PM (Reply to #10)
onwithmylife
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soaper girl

how about we trade senior citizen narcs, mine looks like a balding monk with a real wrinkly face, no chin,squinty eyes, and a big honker!!
Jun 1 - 4PM (Reply to #11)
SoaperGirl
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It's a Deal onwithmylife: how about we trade senior citizen narc

Except my narc does have a big chin, and a huge beak of a nose! I hope you don't mind that my narc is incredibly ugly, ugly, ugly and looks like an old decayed, withered corpse that was buried a long time ago and just recently dug up.
Jun 1 - 5PM (Reply to #12)
onwithmylife
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soapergirl

at one point my narc had bigger breasts than me, I am not crazy about the ugliness of yours, but what the heck, will give him a taste of his own medicine and you can do likewise to mine HAHAHA YOU are funny, love it!!
Jun 1 - 4PM
Susan32
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Here's my new cousin!

In my sophomore year,a freshman went around claiming he was my cousin. I got in on the joke... he was in the ex-Psych prof's classes, and would tell him to cut it out when it came to his cousin (i.e. me) He'd tell the ex-P "Stop picking on my cousin!" The young freshman&I kept the jig going on for awhile... and here's the kicker... the ex-P *BELIEVED* it. When I told him it was all a joke, of course, he raged. And I'd stand there, smiling. All I needed was a drink with an umbrella in it.
Jun 1 - 3PM
onwithmylife
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love this

wish we could make it happen, love to give him his own medicine!!
Jun 1 - 3PM
Caligirl
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dudette love it

I've thought of this one...opening a fake FB page and alerting the new OWs. I know not very original. Though I admit, I wouldn't know the best way to word such a message, "You know that guy, blank, you're talking to? He's the Devil's spawn or he's a narc. You should look up NPD." Or how about sending the old girl "friends" a message asking what happened between them. I know of one who he said he told to "eff off and never contact him again" that's still on his FB, but they supposedly were just "hanging out." Another woman who his son said he was kissing a lot (sometimes with tongue), flirting with and all over her, where narc's version was "We were just friends. I didn't kiss her. Nothing sexual EVER happened with her!" Honestly, I'd LOVE to know the truth, but I'm not that gutsy. I wonder like what if they tell him, and he figures it out who it is. :(
Jun 1 - 2PM
adoette
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dudette

I have had some revenge fantasies, I have to admit. My favorite one is if everyone on this site would FB message him, "Leave Adoette the hell alone." But then I remember that he would LOOOOOOVVVVE that! All these beautiful women sending him messages....and then that takes the fun out of it. But let me know if you think of a plan...
Jun 1 - 3PM (Reply to #2)
Four Aces
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Messing with my Narc

I mind fuck my Narc ALL the time. He came over three weeks to move his internet and business office out of the house. So, I asked him to take a trip with me. He says, I cant do that....I said why not? Your new GF wont mind. Then I say, just tell her you are going out of town. He NEVER got it. I was just fucking with him. It's so easy to do....it's my new past time. She is just as stupid as he is............such a disappointment to the gender.
Jun 1 - 4PM (Reply to #3)
Four Aces
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Messing with your Narc

See once you realize that this so called "man" is nothing more than a shell full of organs and one that resembles a "heart", the party is over. Underneath his very thin exterior skin, is a stupid, spineless, no integrity, lying sack of crap. So there you have it. Why on EARTH would you EVER think he was smarter, quicker or more succesful than you are? He is nothing. He is what you wipe off your shoe when you walk thru a dog park. You are so much better than this thing will ever imagine himself to be in this life. My narc left me because I figured it out. After 17 years, ok I am not quick on the draw, but once I learned I learned. He is NO match for me now. They HATE it when they are figured out and they run and hide under another gullible woman's skirt like the girly man they really are inside. AND if in this day and age of blogs like this, books like Lisa writes women cannot figure this out. I feel really sorry for them. SPREAD THE WORD ABOUT NARCISSIST. Educate, educate, and educate all of your women sisters, daughters, mothers, cousins etc etc etc.
Jun 1 - 6PM (Reply to #4)
Redhead1
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I started to post on this

I started to post on this very same thing. Thought you guys would think I was out of my mind. I read these books by Fern Michaels about a sisterhood that got revenge on people who screwed over one of the sisters. I never had the heart to play my narc, I was to emotionally involved. I would definitely tell you guys he weaks spot tho. He kinda already got played. The OW he left to be with never left her fiancee. She is a twit, she never intended to. She just wanted to see if she was special enough for him to leave his wife for. So, she narced him. Even after we were divorced he had to sneak around to see her. Then he finally gave up. There is some satisfaction in all this mess. This was it.
Jun 1 - 7PM (Reply to #5)
helldweller
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Redhead

You are right. THe satisfaction is in the mess you leave for him to deal with. I used to think, "Oh, boo, hoo. He's still with them I bet." But then I laugh because I told his other women: "Have him bring you to his house. I live next door. Drop on by." or "Have him bring you to pick up his foster child at school. I'm right there every day." He totally knows I ratted him out to all of them, and I picture him trying to keep the game going, trying to keep them away from his house with his excuses. I know they aren't buying them anymore and I just picutre his stupid scared skinny ass freaking out trying to bail himself out of the pot. I also realize that the novelty of a foster child is probably wearing out. It's been almost three years. Three years of him as a fifty-something year old single man trying to take care of a child with obvious issues, taking him to and from school, activities, doctors, psychiatrists, family counseling, visits with his biological father, going to parenting classes that are mandated by the state, not being able to golf anymore or just leave town when he wants to: the shiny toy is turning out to be some expensive bling indeed. And now what's he going to do? He still chain smokes Marlboros and bakes in the sun all day. He's got to be sick. What does he think he's gonna do with his kid when he has a stroke or a heart attack or gets cancer for real? And what's he gonna do with him when he has actual homework next year in second grade, and school projects, and class trips he has to go on, and has to be at Sunday school at 7:30 on Sunday morning in order to make his First Communion? And what's he gonna tell these women who are sick of his bullshit and know the truth now? And how is he gonna deal with the stress of seeing me every day and not knowing when I'm gonna blow next? Not being able to have a woman come to school because he knows I'll tell her everything? A mess if there ever was one.