Making your decisions based on him

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#1 Jun 25 - 12PM
spt
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Making your decisions based on him

Does anyone still make their decisions based on what they think he would like/want etc?

I know by doing this we still make it about him. I also realized its part of the root of my panic attacks. Now that I am making different decisions and trying new things out, I begin to panic if I feel it's not something he would like/approve of and he'll hate me for doing it. It sounds pathetic I know but I realize my brain has literally been programmed to react this, and I had no idea till I was able to reflect, truly.

Jul 4 - 8PM
gemofagirl
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I think we all have done

Jun 26 - 10AM
Loie
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Yes, with material things.

Jun 26 - 4AM
RedMist
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Me too

Jul 4 - 10PM (Reply to #18)
ZanShin
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I could have written this.

Jun 25 - 5PM
thebigpayback
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omg,i did that too, with the

Jun 25 - 3PM
ForeverFreedom
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all about him. all about THEM.

Jun 25 - 2PM
ziggy
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Absolutely

Jun 25 - 1PM
done as dinner
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Ugh, yes.

Jun 25 - 3PM (Reply to #8)
spinning
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to ziggy and done, the

spinning

Jun 25 - 3PM (Reply to #9)
Done sourcing
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The best comes out of you,

Jun 25 - 4PM (Reply to #11)
Emotionalroller...
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DING DING

Jun 25 - 6PM (Reply to #12)
Learningthehardway
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A trigger.....

Jun 25 - 6PM (Reply to #13)
spt
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Aww I had to do that. I was

Jun 25 - 4PM (Reply to #10)
Janie53
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Bump, DS!

Jun 25 - 1PM (Reply to #7)
spt
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That makes two of us. Every

Jun 25 - 1PM
Learningthehardway
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I'm afraid I've done that...

Jun 25 - 1PM (Reply to #2)
spt
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Wow, what an ass. He wanted

Jun 25 - 1PM (Reply to #3)
Learningthehardway
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I think...

Jun 25 - 2PM (Reply to #4)
spt
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I love the way you wrote

Jun 26 - 10AM (Reply to #5)
fefe65
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yep sort of like a child with