Misogynistic men and relationships with them
Misogynistic men and relationships with them
I have been away in Sydney for a few days; it was so nice to get away from all things N. I didn't want to come home, almost cried when I got on the plane, having to go back and face reality and the possibility of bumping in to him and seeing his friends etc, people connected to him. It made me realise it would be so much easier to move away and pretend he never existed.
It is so hard to move ahead when you are looking out for them all the time. It was so nice to go out to the pub and not scan the room for him, let my hair down and be free.
Anyway back to my story. I was in a bookstore and walked up to the self help section where I seem to find myself all too often these days. There was a book titled "Men who hate women, and the women who love them."
It is all about misogynistic relationships and I would recommend everyone to read it.
It also talks about why we find ourselves with these men, and how to change your thinking and feelings.
I sometimes think my Narc doesn't always fit every Narc description but this book filled the gaps.
I have realised he is a misogynist aka a woman hater.
Here are a few things about misogynistic relationships and being in a relationship with one. Very similar to a Narc, but what really stuck out to me was the blame game and silent treatment I was always dealt. Plus my ex saw women in a different way. I think he was threatened by them, maybe something about having a powerful mother. He sees them as needy and risks being tied down to their needs and demands. He was a total commitment phobic at times, and I guess this book explained a lot to me. I recommend reading it.
"Misogynistic men blame women for everything that goes wrong in the relationship and often in their outside life as well. Women in love with misogynists find themselves apologizing for everything and walking on eggshells most of the time.
Does your guy punish you by withholding intimacy, money, love or approval because you have done something to “offend” him?
Puzzle
This book is a must-read for
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petulant child
Sounds like a good book,
Homophobic gays
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