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Mr. Congeniality by Day, Mr. Soul-Sucking Pedophile by Night

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#1 Apr 12 - 4PM
helldweller
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Mr. Congeniality by Day, Mr. Soul-Sucking Pedophile by Night

I FUCKING HATE HIM WITH MY WHOLE HEART! Bear with me. He did the whole hugging, chatting with neighbors bullshit again, after school. This was particularly painful because two of my old neighbors hugged him who knew what he'd done to my daughters and me. Then this afternoon, I went to a mom's house to get a massage, as she suggested that it might help my headaches, and she said, "I told my mom yestereday that I can see how you were drawn in by him, because he so personable, so charming, so likeable." He held my face into the mud when I tried to look at his phone. He told my nine year old to "grow up and get over it" when she walked in on us having sex. He went to Las Vegas when I was miscarrying his baby. This week, he CANNOT BENICE ENOUGH TO THE NEIGHBORS WHO HE BLEW OFF AND AVOIDED FOR THE WHOLE TIME HE LIVED AROUND HERE. HE IS ALWAYS WAKING AND CHATTING AND SMILING WITH THESE PEOPLE HE HATES AND FUCKED OVER!

How do they GROW THE BALLS to keep doing it right in front of us? With our own friends? And to keep even our dearest pals acting civily to them? Chatting with them? And, in at least one caswe for me, screwing them?

Apr 13 - 5PM
solost
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My N did inappropriately

My N did inappropriately touch my daughter on 3 separate occasions when she was 13. She didn't tell me for a long time. Looking back it was at that time (6 months into the relationship) when he changed toward me. Stopped having sex, kissing me talking to me... blah blah blah. I even remember thinking to myself that it felt like my daughter had replaced me. I hate that bastaard. Every body thinks he's such a GREAT GUY. Wonder what they and his new GF would think if they knew.
Apr 13 - 7AM
helldweller
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Goin beyond

This is another one of those things that you would never believe someone you know would be capable of, just as I would never have believed a boyfriend of mine would have five other "monogamous" relationships and steal my soul. But I've seen him do many things I would never have imagined, so why not pedophilia? We've talked about his foster parenting on here before, how a helpless kid is a perfect source of supply for him, but how far does the supply go? If he's low on women, does he make the child serve him? The narc equates love with sex, so how does that figure into his relationship with the child. The narc has no boundaries in any other situation, so why would he have them with the child? There is someone else on this board who found herself in theis situation with her narc and his twenty-something daughter: that they were sharing a bed. Sorry don't remember who it is but perhaps she will post if she reads this. It's truly devasating to realize what they are capable of, how disordered and dangerous they really are. I was in such incredible shock when the foster child first came and the narc no longer held my hand, sat my in his lap or kissed me. He also stopped having intercourse with me. He did constantly hold the child's hand, sit the child in his lap, and kiss him on the lips. He also called him "my baby" which is what he used to call me. If he "transferred" all of that to the chid from me, what else did he transfer?
Apr 12 - 8PM
goin beyond
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Worried

The N I was with has been raising his daughter by himself and is very "attached" I have read about the pediphalia possibly being a symptom and am scared to think that I might think I possibly might have seen some signs. What sick inner soul could ever damage a child. I pray this has not occured but it is my biggest fear as I am no longer "in" the situation to make sure it is not happening.
Apr 12 - 7PM
Arwen
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Isn't it just incredible?

Isn't it just incredible? They just KNOW it will kill us. They preen and do all that crap, but the truth is, people know. They really do know. Don't think they don't. I have been down the narc break-up/socializing path many times, and with men who were also pedophiles, and they would just preen away and talk at the top of their lungs. They only got somewhere if the people they were with didn't know them. And the longer people have known them and they need a narc fix, they will talk that much louder in public. The need to have sex to destroy their feelings of zero worth, hatred of women and so many other completely psychopathic things is what drives them. They are like sharks truly. Hunting until a skilled fisherman comes along and kills them with a big bow and arrow.
Apr 12 - 7PM (Reply to #2)
Hope
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Think I'll take up archery!

Good one!