My best friends think I'm crazy
My best friends think I'm crazy
I was wondering about how your best friends reacted or react to the daily drama from your N? I'm having a very hard time understanding why they don't seem to SEE what kind of hell I'm living in every day.
I've been away from my N for about a month and in usual N form he has tortured me endlessly. He even went so far as to cut my tire at work about 2 weeks ago. I think I've done pretty good with all of his crap except when her turns the heat up on the torment. After he cut my tire I was a nervous wreck and worried endlessly about what he had planned for me next. I have moments that feel like I'm going crazy with rage and worry. I feel like I'm on the edge of some kind of breakdown some days and have to fight to regain control. I don't cry a lot but some days I think about all that has happened and it really gets to me. I get so sad and depressed. I want to pick up the phone and call my friends and vent or cry but I don't. They don't want to hear it. I'm not talking to him anymore so I'm not instigating it. I know this has been a long 3 years for them dealing with him just like I have but I don't understand why they can't see that I NEED THEM? Can't they see I am scared? I just need to talk it out and hear my "sisters" tell me it's OK.
Dealing with a N damages every aspect of your life.....even your friends. He beat me down and abused me and they watched and they don't want to deal with it anymore. Every day is a struggle and a fight just to get out of the bed and function like a normal person. I know they can't possibly understand what kind of HELL it is dealing with these damaged and crazy people but they could have enough compassion for me to say "you ok today?" I can't imagine not being there for them???
Reading this I think..........God you sound just like HIM! Whining and bitching because it's not all about ME ME ME! It's really not like that. I don't want the world to revolve around me. I just want my friends to understand. That's all. Some days I need a life jacket. Can someone please help me and tell me how I can make them understand? I'm afraid of him. I need them.
Sara
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