My Friend's Sister
My Friend's Sister
You know how we discuss whether we should tell the "new" gal in his life about him? Most have indicated, we would be labeled crazy or she wouldn't believe it.
Well, along those lines and it taught me something, I had an interesting chat with my girl friend yesterday who was telling me about her sister's new BF of 2 months. It seems he is the best thing since sliced bread. Part of her family have met him and think he's great. He has values and does really nice things for the sister. Alarm bells were going off while I was listening. Now I don't know the guy at all so he may be just what was being described. So, I decided to ask a couple of questions - how long has he been divorced? Long time. How many RLs has he had? Don't know. Several of his children (girls) are not close to or have issues with him. This I do know - sister has been married twice and second one was a bugger. And some of her BFs have been stinkers also. She's in her late 60's. All this to say, I decided to mention it might be wise to keep an eye on him as I had been there. My girl friend knows how mine ended. However, she doesn't know about Ns. I sensed very quickly that my ideas/thoughts were being dismissed and noted some defensiveness. It's interesting to me how someone not even close to the situation will discount your opinion/experience. Just think what the OW would do!! BTW, I'd bet money he's an N. Those alarm bells have gotten quite accurate lately. However, will not go there with her in future conversations. Just - yes, no, that's nice, or Oh No!! Best to keep my mouth shut on that subject:)
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