My H ADMITTED to being a Narcissist and that he can't be cured!
My H ADMITTED to being a Narcissist and that he can't be cured!
I finally spoke with my N husband today..after ignoring calls, crying, feeling abandoned, etc..I made a call to him today afer I received yet another text message, "I need the garage door opener!" He has asked for the garage door opener in every text he has sent me since the separation, nothing else....well the taxes and garage door opener. It's comical.
Anyhow I picked up the phone and let him have it! He said well you know I'm a Narcissist and we can't be cured. He said, "It's sad there are people out there walking this earth that are like that, and I'm ONE of them!" He asked me how I think he got that way and that he knows he can't change. He admitted to being selfish, etc. He said his therapist is an idiot and he's not helping. "I just think I'm going to be one of those people who wind up alone. I mean, I tried the "nice" girls, I tried the "crazy" girls like you, and each time they leave or I leave them." I actually had to explain the over-value, devalue and discard routine that Narcissist's pull on each of their victims....and he AGREED!!
He agreed to the Madonna Whore complex, the lack of growth, no empathy, etc. He said, "You know I'm like this and can't change so if you want to work things out in the future we should go to a marriage counselor but right now I'm happier because I can go to they gym more and the house is so much cleaner that you're not here. I love you. I have to get my hair cut now. Hang in there."
Hahahahahahahahhaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
And I cry over this man EVERY day!!!
Wow! I am absolutely
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I hear you!
Oh my....
No kidding..."I'm happier
Jodie