My N just texted me!

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#1 Sep 8 - 1PM

dabussard

My N just texted me!

Jacknut just texted me... Dang it the three month block must have expired... Headed to verizon to reblock his ass... This is what he texted, talk about scrambled eggs... "Whats Urs"... WTF is he talking about..

Damn Jacknut is crazy!!!! Wow!!!

#2 Sep 9 - 1AM

grace67

Really? Wow..I never thought

Really? Wow..I never thought of it as being a "subtle" jab. It makes perfect sense, though, now that I think about it that way. I always figured he was just driving, or drunk..or driving drunk! There was the time he sent me the text message meant for someone else...ooops! (NOT) I have no doubt it was forwarded on to me "accidentally on purpose". It was along the lines of "And now She's on Her way home. Already been a long day, just keeps getting Worse! geez" That one was a couple of days after my dog died. I wasn't allowed to show any emotion except "happyhappyjoyjoy"...I can still remember the feeling of being kicked in the gut by that.. and so many other things. Arrrrgghhh... Sorry, I think I went off on my own tangent there..thanks for "listening"!

#3 Sep 9 - 12AM

mparamedic

Fawk....mine did too....and I responded...why why why!!!!?

My NUTBAR sent me an email with a pic of himself saying he misses me. I grappled for a half an hour whether or not to respond. It pissed me off, his stupid picture and empty words... sooo, I'm ashamed to say I did respond. I'm also ashamed to say that I had set up a filter but it will only send the emails directly to the trash bin. When I saw the email in the trash bin I just had to read it! I wish I had just deleted without reading because I just can't seem keep myself from responding when he pisses me off! Obviously I am having trouble committing to my own freaking rules. I'm so angry at myself right now. After being all macho about being NC to others on here I go right on ahead do exactly what I KNOW I shouldn't do! Somebody please kick me in the ass. I responded by asking him what it was that he missed as I was curious to see what his stupid little mind would come up with. I should know better right? As if I could rely on anything he says as being truth! He responded with one word "sugar" (that was his stupid little name for me) so I responded "what? U baking a cake"? He responds "ya a sweetcake lol" so I countered with "k" then left it alone. About a 1/2 hour later he sends another asking why I would respond with just "k" then asked why I was acting like a "grumpy lemon"...WTF? These assholes are absolutely one hundred percent bobo zigzag! Starkers, nuts, CRAZY! I didn't respond. Now I'm sitting here kicking myself in the ass for responding because I know damn well that I just waltzed right into the palm of his hand and gave him exactly what he wanted...a response ergo control. Sigh..I can't stand it anymore. Why can't I just let it go? I don't get it!

#4 Sep 9 - 3AM (Reply to #27)

Done sourcing

Strength is an illusion, I

Strength is an illusion, I think. What makes nc work is action and understanding. They want supply. Narcs must have this like we need food and water. All attention gives them supply. Good attention and bad attention are all the same, it feeds them. Cut off the attention completely ( NC ), and they will go away. They will keep checking back from time to time sometimes, sometimes not...but that doesnt matter once you are nc, because nc works daily or weekly or monthly or annually, whenever they call just do the nc shuffle. Its a perfect way to handle a narcissist, and in fact the only perfect way. It didnt always work for me because I didnt want it to work. I wanted to talk to her, and told myself it was because she wouldnt leave me alone. Truth is, she still calls, but I am nc so it doesnt matter. Stop kicking yourself, he did that enough already. Give yourself credit for knowing more than you did, for writing about it, and for sharing your experience with others. Very brave and very smart. ds

#5 Sep 9 - 1AM (Reply to #26)

Arwen

awwwww Paramedic! You're

awwwww Paramedic! You're doin just fine. You think I would be able to resist responding either? Well actually at this point I might be strong enough not to, but heck yeah I'd probably have to also. And you know what...what you wrote to him was great...he's not in control trust me, but you sound like you are. Let it go! Onwards and upwards.

#6 Sep 8 - 10PM

Arwen

OMG yeah my N did that to me

OMG yeah my N did that to me ALL the time...the misspelled texts. It was supposed to say to you,"what's up", but he intentionally texted the wrong letters to you to show you how little he cares about you, that he doesn't care enough about you to bother looking at the texting keyboard and type the right letters. And that is just so hostile. Mine did it ALL THE TIME! How pathetic these bastards are! Can you believe they have such little self-esteem that they must resort to something so obvious in order to make themselves feel good?

#7 Sep 8 - 10PM (Reply to #23)

alittledark

words misspelled

My narc has often closed with "I love yuo". I feel the same way. It's to make me feel like I'm not worth his time and he knows I second guess everything. Very cruel.

I do not want the peace which passeth understanding, I want the understanding which bringeth peace.
--Helen Keller

#8 Sep 9 - 1AM (Reply to #24)

Arwen

alittledark YOU GOT IT! And

alittledark YOU GOT IT! And when you're in the thick of it, it really hurts so badly. But now, I just think HA! You are SO pathetic!!

#9 Sep 8 - 4PM

Hunter

and he probably texted every f'ing day waiting for it to go through, only an assclown...amazing that what seems sometimes so devastating can be seem so silly when we get clarity and sanity back! We realy do go to hell and back on the emotional roller coaster. ds

#28 Sep 8 - 2PM (Reply to #4)

dabussard

Done Sourcing

You are probably right... Bet he tried it everyday... I stepped off of his merry go round.. He can spin all he wants... I don't like spinning... NC makes the spinning lesson and sometimes go away completely... So glad, I found this site... It is time to take my life back..

#29 Sep 9 - 8AM (Reply to #5)

Wiser_happier_h...

Strength

Keep it up! And delete his text message. Go girl! LIfe is there for the taking. Real life, full of real emotions and real love and real care and amazing memories. That text was no mistake, it was him trying to mess with you, make you question, and respond, even with a "what? so he could probably not respond and mess with your head even more. Every time you go to respond, think about that smug smile on his face when he sees your name light up on his screen. Power to you. x

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