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My Narc bludeoned his mother to death

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#1 Aug 18 - 7PM
Arwen
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My Narc bludeoned his mother to death

I just wanted to let all of you know that the third narc of my life did that. We were both eighteen. He had all the signs even then - not of a murderer - but of a narc. He was beautiful and excessivly concerned with his appearance, he had a girlfriend he told me nothing about until she showed up at our workplace trying to kill me, he made me travel hours to a different part of the city to see him late at night, he wanted sex in crazy places like under bridges, in closets and bathrooms at work, etc. I left our workplace for college and two years later came by the store to say hi to everyone, including him whom I had gotten over way since that point. The manager of the store kinda turned white and said to me, "you didn't read the papers?...N became a crack addict and bludgeoned his mother to death and is in prison for three life sentences". You can imagine my shock. I was twenty. But my point in telling you this is that your garden variety NPD can become a murdered and addict VERY, VERY quickly. The fact that he killed his mother speaks of his insatiable rage towards women. mother being the central representative of all women. Ladies...I hope this story helps you to walk out for good. They are not just assholes...they are killers.

Aug 19 - 7PM
Sparrow
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I worked with a girl years

I worked with a girl years ago that bludgeoned her Mother to death one day with her boyfriend and then went on a spending spree with her Mothers credit cards. All while her corpse lay in the trunk of her car. This was 22 years ago..........I knew nothing of narcissism or any kind of disorder for that matter back then. I remember just standing in our office in total disbelief.
Aug 20 - 12AM (Reply to #8)
Arwen
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Sparrow it's such a huge

Sparrow it's such a huge shock isn't it...when you know someone who does this? Your story sounds to me so much like that mother who just got out of her sentence oy what's her name...anyway you know. Yes narcissists to start with and murderers by the end.
Aug 19 - 1AM
Journey
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Well Arwin, I sure am glad

Well Arwin, I sure am glad you went away to college leaving narc #3 behind. Yikes, it truly is scary what those with no empathy can do under certain circumstances. Here's to a narc free future!!!

Journey on...

Aug 19 - 1AM (Reply to #6)
Arwen
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Here here Journey! Cheers to

Here here Journey! Cheers to a narc free future for all of us. Amen.
Aug 19 - 1AM
greengirl91
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Jesus Christ.. I was reading

Jesus Christ.. I was reading some while ago about Ed Gein and his relationship with his dominating mother, after watching "Silence of the lambs"..there are some interesting dynamics in that movie, reminds me of how much possesion can a manipulative narc/murderer or whatever freak can do. Crazy indeed what your narc did, Sam Vaknin said in one of his posts, that the entire existence of the Narcisist is a pathetic attemp to get back at mother, to prove that he is special..through years of serial abuse, or whether some are born like that in their genes, they become these angry hollow beings. And we the unforcinate, become the boxing bag for their rage. Freaks
Aug 23 - 4PM (Reply to #4)
LostandFound
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Interesting

Well first of all I don't listen to anything Vaknin says as he has no understanding of the victim and as he is himself a Narc I just ignore him...that aside.... My exN was worshiped by his mum. She gave him anything he wanted and covered up for his mistakes. He never faced the consequences of his actions so he would create havoc and walk away. One day a woman called his mum and said that her son was the father of her daughter's child (he shagged his way across the south coast of england) and my exN's mum told her her daughter was a liar and the proceeded to pack the family up and move away so he couldn't be found again. I truly believe this coddling of my exN put him on the road of being a Narcissist as he was allowed to do and say anything he wanted and as his parents owned bars he was the cool kid in town and could get any female he wanted and never thought to treat any of them with respect as there was always a ready supply of women who would be there to sleep with him. They had a lot of cash and would buy him cars and take him on holidays and would give him money whenever he needed it. No responsibility for his actions or anything. He worshiped his mum and once she died he got worse and worse. To what he is today. A self centered lying cheating thieving jerk.
Aug 22 - 10PM (Reply to #3)
Susan32
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Silence of the Lambs

The ex-Psych prof's favorite movie is "Silence of the Lambs." Early on (my freshman year),he'd say that his favorite version of "War and Peace" is the "one with Hannibal Lecter in it." Yes, the BBC made a "War and Peace" miniseries starring Anthony Hopkins as Pierre. The ex-P is a raging misogynist... how he now has a wife&daughter AFTER my own final D&D... I don't get it. (He fathered a daughter-along with a son-and married his girlfriend a year after my final D&D) He loooved quoting Arthur Schopenhauer's most misogynistic quotes. And now his mother lives with him.
Aug 19 - 1AM (Reply to #2)
Arwen
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Greengirl yes I know about

Greengirl yes I know about the Ed Gein stories as well and it chills my spine. I don't talk much about this narc except to my husband and therapist and some very close friends know what happened...I don't like to admit I was with someone who did something like this. No one would understand except all of you on here. People always raise an eyebrow as if to say, "well I guess you must be a piece of trash also if you dated him", etc., etc. I don't know what happened with his mother except that the only obvious thing was that his father was a fundamental religious man who was very woman-hating. He could not have been a role model for this narc I speak of.