Narc is being nice and I'm still ignoring--fun!
Narc is being nice and I'm still ignoring--fun!
Much as I'd like him to completely go away, he is still friends with my hubby. I have not revealed too much to my husband as I won't risk my marriage over my mistakes I made with thinking the N was real. I'm at 18 months N/C with one face to face final contact where I told him directly to never contact me again. That was about 10 months ago.
I don't answer the phone when he calls and have stopped passing on messages to my husband now too. Now the N is contacting my hubby at work as he probably realizes he can't get through by calling our house. He gave my husband tickets to a local hockey game last night only because he didn't want them not because he was being generous (incapable of being that) and I see it as just another little game. Dangle a carrot and make me think of him in a good way. He's done this type of hovering several times over the last year and a half. He's probably expecting an email thank you or something or just wanting to tug at my guilt strings. I won't do it.
The way I see it, if he gave me a million dollars, I still wouldn't have anything to do with him.
I love N/C!! I hope he continues to be kind and make all the effort to restore our relationship but sadly for him, it won't get him anywhere closer to me. I say, GAME ON!!!
Narcs are NEVER nice. Unless
Aren't you ever worried or
To Moore...N's live in fear
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