Narcs and Christianity

Another reason why I pray at home!! I think a place a worship is Narc heaven(teehee) Going to a place of worship serves two purposes for a narc. He feeds off the other members " so nice to see you Mr Narc" "what are your thoughts on today's sermon "? "Oh, your right Mr Narc " See he is the God in the house of God!! What a perfect place to find another victim, good honest people to prey on. What a model citizen, Don't you think? The masked man loves to pray or did I mean prey! Hunter

Supposedly they are spiritually empty although they may go through the motions. Mine went to Catholic school K-12 and attends church every Sun but there is a catch! He goes to church for appearance sake. No joke. He sits in the same pew so the same people see him and he is the local dentist in a small town so they look for him every week. He literally just sits there. He doesn't utter a prayer or a word. When I sat next to him during a funeral mass he was so cold. I was crying (it was my side of the family death) and he did not comfort me once. it was horrible. he was extremely cold.

.....as widely as there are people. Both my N husband and I are traditional catholics (this is the old form of the Mass said/sang in Latin pre-Vatican 2....other catholics know what I am talking about) and yes, we practised regularly...and I still do without him..all Sundays and all Holy Days of Obligation (Happy Feast of the Assumption to all! By the way, it's today!) I think I had read (and I might be wrong) a lot of narcissist are religious and I think the reason may be they think they can manupulate the image of being religious and "good" to suit them or use the rules of the church to which they belong to twist to their benefit (i.e. "man is head of the household, etc...) Please remember, MOST people that observe their faiths in earnest ARE doing so in earnest. Just like anything, you will always have the "bad seeds" taking advantage of something that is good and beautiful, in attempts to use for selfish gains. I truly believe we need to "give this to God"....let Him pass down His judgement to all people that dare to take what is His, and distort it in any way to hurt any of God's children, which in essence, is ALL of us.