Narcs and their moms
Narcs and their moms
So I know that the information out there as to what causes males to become narcissistic is scant. One speculated cause that I have come across a few times is a history of incest, especially mother-son incest. The incest could be physical, but more commonly, is of the latent type, where mothers have an inappropriate emotional relationship with their sons. My narc has told me that as a child, he walked in on his mother masturbating and she thought it was funny; she walked in on him having sex, and gave him a "thumbs up"; that she would flirt with his friends, slap his ass in public, and openly had an affair with his uncle while his father was away.
I guess the causes are irrelevant because they are the first steps towards creating a "victim" out of the narcissist. Next thing you know you're feeling sorry for him, making excuses for his behavior, and lock yourself into this idea that you can "help him".
I'm avoiding that approach, and am focused on no contact. I guess I'm just bringing this up because I'm curious from a psychological standpoint...
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