Need some advice on how to cope...
Need some advice on how to cope...
Hello everyone i hope you all had a nice holiday...i need some advice...so my XN and i have been on again off again for almost 3 years now we are over he has a new girlfriend and i'm heartbroken and struggling to move on...so i know i shouldn't look at facebook but curiosity got the best of me and i did...the OW's new profile pic is her in a snowmobile outfit the jacket gloves pants everything...he is taking her to his parents place with the family this weekend for the trip...well this broke my heart into a millions pieces...see i never got to go with him...i've always wanted too and to now see her going is just killing me...now he is broke...has no $ so i know he didn't buy it for her but what if he did? it's at least $1,000.00 in snowmobile gear...i know he is using her for $ because he barely is scraping by...why does this hurt so much? why can't i pity her instead of feel jealous? i know he is using her to pay the way for the trip/gas/food etc...but it just hurts...i hate this feeling...
The best way to cope is NO
I know it hurts
Thank you...i know i keep
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I can't understand why
I don't think she has $...she
Not OW - she is just New Victim