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One liners.....I may be dating a narc

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#1 Jan 3 - 11PM
nomoredenial
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One liners.....I may be dating a narc

There are 3 topics that newbies started that make me laugh (in a sad way) because over the last four months I asked the same questions to myself and others a million times. What are some one liner questions that you asked yourself or others that is a definite sign you might be dating an N

1 Is it me?

2 I feel crazy

3 why do I feel the need to have other people validate what I went through?

Jan 4 - 10PM
NessMIA
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My biggest one has been..

"WHY AM I LETTING HIM DO THIS TO ME?"
Jan 4 - 9PM
janemarie
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I asked myself "If this is

I asked myself "If this is how he is now after a year and half...what is he gonna be like in 20?" "Is this what I want for the rest of my life?" HELL NO!!!!!!
Jan 4 - 9PM
foreverfun1
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"your neediness and jealousy

"your neediness and jealousy is making me not attracted to you anymore"
Jan 4 - 5PM
twinkletoes
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all the above and when you

all the above and when you start googling celebecy, ED, ultra sensitive man, two faced personality, sexless relationship, controlling, relationship too good to be true etc etc
Jan 4 - 8AM
Sparrow
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"What have I become? This

"What have I become? This isn't me, where did I go and who is this stranger that is pretending to be me?"
Jan 4 - 4PM (Reply to #9)
peacelily76
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Yes!!!! The stranger pretending to be you...

That is so dead-on! They so do this! They take your personality and strip you bare and then when you stop and wonder where YOU went, they look at you blankly and say, "Sorry, don't know what you're on about." Oh wow, just this one scary reminder has helped me move on about a hundred steps!!
Jan 4 - 1AM
WorthMore
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What was it I wanted again?

What was it I wanted again?
Jan 4 - 1AM
Im_always_fine
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"WHAT THE F#CK?!?!"is the one

"WHAT THE F#CK?!?!"is the one line question I've ask most. In reaction to his crazy making...his stories...his drama...his lying...
Jan 3 - 11PM
Gravity
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No more denial

You can be guaranteed that you're dating an N if you start to feel insane. If you ask yourself 1) Am I going nuts? 2) Have I always been nuts and this is the first guy to tell me the truth? 3) Why can't I get out of bed 4) Why is my life in shambles and I don't know why 5) Why am I neglecting myself and my appearance 6) Why do I feel anxious every time I speak with him 7) Why does it feel like there is something I'm missing that I can't put my finger on 8) Why is he all over me one minute and the next day completely distant 9) Why is he so protective of his cell phone? 10) Why does he always accuse me of sleeping with other people when I have made it very obvious that I am totally committed to him? All very very normal and SURE signs that the guy you are dating is an N or at the very least a nut job.
Jan 4 - 6PM (Reply to #5)
bgirl
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Gravity that list should be

Gravity that list should be made into a key tag :0 so i can read it everyday on every bag I own :)
Jan 4 - 4PM (Reply to #4)
peacelily76
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Yes Gravity! These are all so true!

One more question you'll find yourself asking... "Why do his friends/neighbours look at me that way?" Because he's told them all you're a psycho!!!! RUN!!!
Jan 3 - 11PM
Run4it
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Pillowcases in the freezer?

1. Am I just a jealous person? 2. Is it possible that he is just not attracted to me? 3. Why can't I stop crying? 4. Do you think it's weird for a man to cry all the time? 5. Don't you think it is weird that he never sees his children?
Jan 4 - 1AM (Reply to #2)
freaked
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from WOW to OUCH to WTF

1. WOW he shares exact same taste in music as me....he has actually HEARD of Uriah Heep!!!! How amazing.. OH NO..../wtf 2. WOW..he's so caaaaaaaring...so lovvvving... he is a dream come true... OUCH/wtf 3. WOW... he is sooooooo popular... look at the way girls are swarming around me newly wedded hubby...and aint I strutting cos I am the gal who got him!!!!! OUCH/wtf 4. WOW... WTF (cos by the time we have gotten to this point..after 20 years of insidious as well as open torture...nothing matter anymore... I wake up and say to myself... oh if the sky's purple and the grass is blue... i dont care)