***Plea for Perspective - 18 days NC (minus one Hoover and one VM he initiated)***

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#1 Jun 18 - 3PM
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***Plea for Perspective - 18 days NC (minus one Hoover and one VM he initiated)***

18 Days NC... Feeling very, very tempted to make contact. Why today? Why now? I relate to other posts where others describe feeling like a drug addict going though withdrawal. This urge is preventing me from concentrating. There must be an inner voice preventing me from acting on my impulse.
I'm losing sight of the 'disordered man' and focusing on all of the laughter and fun we have together. I'm questioning if he's really a Narcissist or am I a woman that wants something from him that he's just not preparted to share with me? I'm losing perspective....

Jun 18 - 8PM
imasurvivor
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Block his number

Jun 18 - 6PM
LoserFree
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FreeME I don't think you

Jun 18 - 5PM
abreva
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You need to refer to your list of horrors.

Jun 18 - 3PM
FreeMe (not verified)
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To ALL who just responded to my Plea...

Jun 18 - 3PM
Hunter
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CONTACT = PAIN Hunter

Jun 18 - 3PM (Reply to #8)
Layla
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It really is this simple.

Jun 18 - 3PM (Reply to #9)
spinning
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And here's more unvarnished truth,

spinning

Jun 18 - 4PM (Reply to #11)
FreeMe (not verified)
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Dear (Totally Not) Spinning-

Jun 18 - 5PM (Reply to #12)
abreva
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Trust your instincts, or Not.

Jun 18 - 5PM (Reply to #15)
FreeMe (not verified)
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Not harsh at all.... True! True! True!

Jun 18 - 6PM (Reply to #16)
abreva
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Yeah girl, you hold strong,

Jun 18 - 5PM (Reply to #13)
ordinarycourage
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Best Advice Ever

Jun 18 - 5PM (Reply to #14)
abreva
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Thanks. I was afraid that it

Jun 18 - 3PM (Reply to #10)
Layla
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Amen spinning.

Jun 18 - 3PM
spinning
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FM, you're choosing this thought pattern

spinning

Jun 18 - 3PM
Rising Dawn
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Here's some perspective

Jun 18 - 3PM
Layla
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As long as I have been on this site....

Jun 18 - 3PM
Deidre99
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You want to break contact,

Jun 18 - 3PM
TruthbeginsToday
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NC!

Jun 18 - 9PM (Reply to #2)
bluegirl
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I had days when I felt I had