Projection about cheating

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#1 May 6 - 12PM
Lookonthesunnyside
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Projection about cheating

Anyone else's narc make a huge point of calling guys who cheat assholes?? Mine did the following:

Said my ex before him was an asshole because he made out with another girl when we were together. I defended him and said "actually, he was great to me our whole relationship, and he's regretted it ever since. He's not a bad guy but he made a stupid mistake". He said "no, hes an asshole".

Said once that LANCE ARMSTRONG is an "asshole". I asked why and he said "he cheated on his wife". This struck me as so bizarre because my ex is a cancer survivor (had it when he was 20) and he wears the yellow livestrong bracelet all the time...its just weird.

Told me that he found out his guy friend was cheating and that it really bothered him, that he thought he was a good guy and was surprised he was "that kind of guy". Said he was going to have a talk with him about it. (Turns out the guy wasnt, but anyways)

Call my GRANDPA "an asshole" when I confided in him that he had had an affair years and years ago.

WHAT A LITTLE PHONEY BALONEY!!! Keep weaving that web buddy...

I feel like they not only create these fake personas, but that they themselves can jump into them and totally convince themselves for a brief amount of time that they ARE this great guy. That they actually ARE outraged that people betray each other like that.

Do you think? Or is it just pure, calculated, conscious planting of the seeds to try and maintain a good image?

May 7 - 7AM
Portia
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Cheaters

May 7 - 11AM (Reply to #14)
Lookonthesunnyside
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Omg what an out of control

May 7 - 7AM
Deidre99
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I personally think it's

May 7 - 4AM
nadine31
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Also: I agree that they

May 7 - 11AM (Reply to #11)
Lookonthesunnyside
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Ya good points nadine, I

May 7 - 1AM
no more an echo
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Talk about sanctimonious!

May 7 - 11AM (Reply to #9)
Lookonthesunnyside
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"Like they were so UPRIGHT

May 7 - 6AM (Reply to #6)
Cabo
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Outraged

May 7 - 11AM (Reply to #8)
no more an echo
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sticky goodbye note (pun intended)

May 7 - 11AM (Reply to #7)
Lookonthesunnyside
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Left a sticky note!? Who is

May 7 - 12AM
nadine31
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Hell yes.

May 7 - 11AM (Reply to #4)
Lookonthesunnyside
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"'Mine' would even make me

May 6 - 2PM
mellyj
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From experience I would say

May 7 - 11AM (Reply to #2)
Lookonthesunnyside
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"The greater the "outrage"