The saga continues...

Yes I am still here. Under much deliberation and reading your kind responses I realised that i should stay.

Well...

Another visit today.

This time I had everything planned out to avoid being charmed again.

A quick debriefing-
Have a one year old child with ex n.
Hadn't seen exn for 6 months until 2 weeks ago.
First contact was fine- I was strong, tough, unmoveable.

Second contact- he charmed me- left me spinning.
Starting texting me constantly about the baby. Verbally pushed me around and generally just tried to take over and dominate.

So I sent him a text telling him when his visits are and that I want no contact other than at those times.
He sent back immediately- why are you so angry?
And then later- whatever happened to working out a friendship?

I ignored them both.

Fast forward to today and the n had not contacted me for 6 six days- it was heaven.
He pulled up his car in the driveway to pick up our child and get this- HE BEEPED for me to come out!!! I ignored him.
After a few minutes he got out of his car in a huff and knocked on the door.
I opened the Big door and left the screen door shut and locked. Immediate advantage to me as I could see him but he couldn't see me.
I said- one minute I'll just get him.
EXN looked very angry and wouldn't make eye contact - which was fine with me as I was trying not to make eye contact either.

Went and got my child who by this stage was clinging to me like a leech as soon as he saw EXN and handed him over.
My son bawled his eyes out. He doesn't seem to like EXN much.

I watched EXN from the window , he strapped my child into his car seat (still bawling) and jumped into the drivers seat slamming the door.
Off he went.

I had a great day- spoiled myself but going clothes shopping by myself- something I haven't done in a long time! It was awesome!

I stayed out the whole 4 hours that EXN had the child.

I timed my return to be 5 minutes before EXN was to arrive.

But as I was heading home, his car was coming from the other direction and neither of us acknowledged with a wave or anything.
He just gave me an evil glare.

So I put two and two together and realised that EXN had dropped my bubba off early with my parents (I live with them).

When I pulled in the driveway I noticed a car parked out the front of my house. It had stickers on it etc and was very masculine if that makes sense. It's the neighbors from across the road.
Anyway I thought nothing more of it until my phone beeped with a text. It was EXN.
This is what he wrote-

Dont know if that was your boyfriends car out the front and don't really care. Having said that under no circumstances Is (my sons name) to call anyone else daddy but me!

I didn't respond.

My mum told me that EXN had got out of his car and stared at the car in question and he visibly looked livid.

I just find the whole thing hilarious- here he is fuming about a neighbors car for Christ sake. He is so mentally deranged!!!

What is your take on the text?