So he got my number from a colleague....

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#1 Jan 10 - 9AM
mandathepanda
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So he got my number from a colleague....

I changed my number but he must have got it from a colleague...he text me and it says "I hope you are ok, I know you dont want friendship and I might be an idiot for sending this but I really hope you are ok".

I haven't been at work for a few days, and he's probably wondering why.

The amazing thing is, I deleted without thinking twice!

Go me!

Jan 10 - 9AM
spinning
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High five, Manda,

ROCK ON! NC is the key to freedom! Most sincerely, (not) spinning. BECAUSE I'M 14 MONTHS TOTAL NC and LOVING IT!

spinning

Jan 10 - 9AM
Sparrow
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I would never give someone's

I would never give someone's phone number to anyone without checking with that person in the first place. When giving your number out, make sure to remind them that it is for their use only and you expect them not to give it to anyone. Great job in deleting! Keep up the good work!
Jan 10 - 9AM
Hunter
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Idiot.. A gold star for

Idiot.. A gold star for you.. See how he manipulated the collegue ?.they are masters .. Hunter
Jan 10 - 9AM (Reply to #6)
mandathepanda
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I need to have a word with

I need to have a word with people at work...a lot of them dont know we are over, so perhaps that person believed whatever bullshit he told them.. I KNOW that NC IS the right thing and I will stick to it, there is that stupid bit of my mind that feels guilty though... pity for him... Manda xxx
Jan 10 - 10AM (Reply to #7)
Run4it
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Pity.....yeah, right

Remember, that is one of their primary ways to suck people in...
Jan 10 - 9AM (Reply to #2)
mandathepanda
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I need to have a word with

I need to have a word with people at work...a lot of them dont know we are over, so perhaps that person believed whatever bullshit he told them.. I KNOW that NC IS the right thing and I will stick to it, there is that stupid bit of my mind that feels guilty though... pity for him... Manda xxx
Jan 10 - 12PM (Reply to #5)
nomoredenial
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I KNOW that NC IS the right

I KNOW that NC IS the right thing and I will stick to it, there is that stupid bit of my mind that feels guilty though... pity for him Isnt this a bitch? I feel it too sometimes and I have to remind myself is that is the GAME the PLOY the way he sucks me and others in. I felt guilt for filing for child support.
Jan 10 - 12PM (Reply to #3)
Used
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mandapanda

If a lot of people dont think you are over, then why would he be asking other people for your number... I think you are being to easy about WHO THE HELL GAVE YOUR NUMBER OUT....
Jan 11 - 4AM (Reply to #4)
mandathepanda
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its hard for anyone else to

its hard for anyone else to understand the place we work at I guess. Its a small company, like a family and we are all pretty close friends as well as colleagues. Don't worry I will be finding out who, but I won't give them a hard time because I can imagine he would have said something like, "can I just check Amanda's number, for some reason phone playing up etc etc"...easy peasy. But I will be sending the message out loud and clear when I go back to work tomorrow... I have already told the closest friend to him at work that if I EVER ask for information about the Ex N in a weaker moment, he is not to tell me anything. He has promised.