Step Number One = No Contact!
Step Number One = No Contact!
Leaving a N is not like breaking up with anyone else! I have left relationships or had others leave me my entire life. I remember the normal way and this is definitely off the charts.
I have been reading articles on line which is helpful. The only solution I see is NC. It's not like my ex-boyfriend whom I am good friends with or my ex-husband whom connects every couple years or so. This is sinister and evil. His "love" for me consists now of not respecting my boundaries whatsoever. He loves to call me from an unknown number then attempt to get a couple abusive sentences in prior to me hanging up on him.
I don't understand him. He is physically ill now! He can't get out of bed. He is vomiting blood. I am so cruel and abusive. This my Dear Readers is after week of his verbal vomit at me that I have Borderline Personality Disorder. Now? Well. Maybe I "don't have it" and can I come see him for Christmas? He is over his anger now so I should be over it. He liked to say when I lived with him and had nowhere else to go "get over it in a nano-second!"
Oh my! And, he is now having his Mother contact me! I told him to leave me alone after weeks of his harassment, emails, text messages, calls at work etc. Blocked him and filtered. The phone just rang and it was her. She left me a voice mail.
WHEN does this all end!
Let's all feel sorry for him now right? Come on. He is so abused, neglected and hurt in love.
Augghhh!
Kat
Tell his mother she caused
Don't go it alone...
Excellent article Kitty
Clarity...
KittyRising