I am married but involved in an affair with a man who I believe is a narc. He at least displays some attributes and tendencies. I have only been involved with him for 4 months, but he is insisting that I leave my husband for him now. He has pretended to give me time, but always comes back a few days later insisting I file for divorce. It means nothing to him that I have 2 small children.
Now I know it is my fault for getting involved, and I take full responsibility for that. I want to end it now, and have been unsuccessful. He's the one who always tries to end it, and if I agree with him that it should end he gets very angry. He threatens to tell or harm my husband. If I go NC I am afraid of what he might do. Help!