a very special treat!

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kiwi10
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a very special treat!

a chat with the other woman! i found this in my email. he had left his wife (me) only 4 weeks prior and was telling me he wante dto work things out and we shouldn't see other people. he quickly, after our date that night, posted a craigslist ad looking for a 'classy lady with a touch of grey' (becaus ei'm to young and pretty for him, remember)? ENJOY! BTW, lot sand lots of lied on here other than that. like the fact that we MET on myspace.. lots of weird, weird lies.

----- Our chat on Wed, 4/28/10 12:08 AM -----

S Child (10:14 PM): hey its Chat again will it work lets see !
Michelle (10:14 PM): hi sidney
S Child (10:14 PM): it did i'm impressed with my typing skills. Hi Michelle
Michelle (10:14 PM): you look familiar
Michelle (10:15 PM): hi, handsome
S Child (10:15 PM): im just a regular guy. we're all over the place - hi cutie
Michelle (10:15 PM): how was your day?
S Child (10:16 PM): kinda long and yours ?
Michelle (10:16 PM): was ok, i have a student who i am trying to counsel, she's pregnant and 17. you know how it goes.
S Child (10:17 PM): i guess i did most of what i shouldve done. but i have this one big project that i procrastinated on for so long its really stressing me now.
Michelle (10:17 PM): did you go to the mall today? hehehe
S Child (10:17 PM): i wish
Michelle (10:17 PM): too bad your stressed. i'm so soryy
S Child (10:17 PM): i havent really felt like doing much
Michelle (10:18 PM): why not?
S Child (10:18 PM): is ok
Michelle (10:18 PM): are you ok?
S Child (10:18 PM): oh i just give out a little wah wah every now and then but i'm fine
S Child (10:19 PM): it was a good day actually just busy
Michelle (10:19 PM): my husband called me today, randomly
S Child (10:19 PM): every day is good now that i have some freedom and do easy stuff like sit here and talk to you
S Child (10:20 PM): thats good i suppose
Michelle (10:20 PM): what do you mean? you didn;t have freedom before?
S Child (10:20 PM): no
Michelle (10:20 PM): when?
S Child (10:20 PM): when i was with the person i left 6 weeks ago
S Child (10:21 PM): it sure is nice to talk to you
Michelle (10:21 PM): oh, you don't have much good to say about her. but you can't talk to other people when your in a relationship though, right?
Michelle (10:21 PM): nice to talk ot you too sidney
S Child (10:22 PM): right. and i didnt want freedom when i was with her
S Child (10:22 PM): but she didnt treat me right and i was unhappy
Michelle (10:22 PM): how did she treat you wrong?
Michelle (10:22 PM): my husband says the same thing about me. trying to get into a man's head.
S Child (10:23 PM): you know its hard to live with someone, to be someone even if you are crazy about them, its hard enough as it is - she just made it that much harder over the stupidest things
Michelle (10:24 PM): maybe you guys just needed to communicate better
S Child (10:24 PM): she liked to fight and have drama
Michelle (10:24 PM): don't all guys feel that way in relationships?
Michelle (10:24 PM): just playing devil's advocate here
S Child (10:25 PM): she was jealous in the way all the psychology says destroys relationships, always accusing me of things and wanting to fight and have drama
Michelle (10:25 PM): young girls are jealous.
S Child (10:25 PM): no not like this. she was way overboard
S Child (10:25 PM): and childish and selfish and refused to be responsible for anything
Michelle (10:25 PM): did you ever give her a reason to be jealous?
Michelle (10:25 PM): wow. you sound like you hate her.
S Child (10:26 PM): no i really really didnt
Michelle (10:26 PM): she must be a real bitcch.
S Child (10:26 PM): i think i have quite a bit of anger to get over from what she has done to me for going into 4 years now. i feel like 4 of my best years are gone
Michelle (10:27 PM): i don't understand what she did that was so wrong, sidney. i'm sorry.
S Child (10:27 PM): you are not going to get much into "mens heads" talking to me because i dont consider what i have been thru normal or typical
Michelle (10:28 PM): but i'll try to be sympathic. i know you need afriend.
Michelle (10:29 PM): so what are you looking for ?
S Child (10:29 PM): but really i dont want to badmouth her. she did try too to make it work, just not enough. and i know she has many fine qualities
Michelle (10:29 PM): what fine qualities?
S Child (10:29 PM): now thats a subject that puts a smile on my face !
S Child (10:30 PM): i just want to laugh and joke around some and enjoy life a littel
Michelle (10:30 PM): are you looking to find a new girlfriend?
S Child (10:30 PM): what r u looking for Michelle? insight about your husband
Michelle (10:31 PM): i don't know. he'll never take me back anyway.
S Child (10:31 PM): i dont think it would be good for me at all to rush into something like "a new girlfriend"
Michelle (10:31 PM): why not?
Michelle (10:32 PM): it sounds as if you are done with your pretty ex girlfriend.
S Child (10:32 PM): i need to take some space for myself . dont u ?
Michelle (10:32 PM): yes, i do
Michelle (10:32 PM): so why the ad?
S Child (10:33 PM): dont u deserve to do whatever you want that makes u happy as long as it doesnt hurt anyone else
S Child (10:33 PM): to meet nice people such as yourself
Michelle (10:33 PM): yes, hurting people is a very bad thing.
Michelle (10:33 PM): my husband is looking for a new girlfriend i think
S Child (10:34 PM): well thats what guys do even if they know better
Michelle (10:34 PM): but he keeps saying he loves me its so damn confusing.
Michelle (10:34 PM): i think he's trying to keep me incase he changes his mind
S Child (10:35 PM): loving someone on some level doesnt mean you should live together or be married
S Child (10:35 PM): its complicated.
S Child (10:35 PM): Did you know that i am an amateur zoologist ?
Michelle (10:35 PM): yeah, but he says he wants to work it out, then he talk to other women.
Michelle (10:35 PM): you are?
Michelle (10:36 PM): is that what you do for a living/
S Child (10:36 PM): no for fun. i love to observe animals
Michelle (10:36 PM): i love animals too
S Child (10:36 PM): and there is an observation i have made about homo sapiens
Michelle (10:37 PM): please, tell
S Child (10:37 PM): did you know there is one feature of the homo sapiens that is absolutely unique in the animal world on Planet Earth
Michelle (10:37 PM): whaT?
S Child (10:37 PM): ok i tell
S Child (10:37 PM): we are the only species - believe it or not - that does NOT learn from our elders
S Child (10:38 PM): we learn everything the hard way
Michelle (10:38 PM): what does this have to do with my husband? or does it?
S Child (10:38 PM): we can be told and told what not to do and how to do things, but it doesnt matter
S Child (10:38 PM): have u ever seen a furry little animal not paying attention to what its momma was showing it, no
S Child (10:39 PM): i'm full of silly stories
S Child (10:40 PM):
Michelle (10:40 PM): sidney, can you explain to me why my husband is stringing me along? should i cut off all contact?
Michelle (10:40 PM): what are you doing right now
S Child (10:40 PM): your husband doesnt know what he is doing and he is confused.
S Child (10:40 PM): but he believes he has to do it
Michelle (10:41 PM): has to do what
Michelle (10:41 PM): talk to other women?
S Child (10:41 PM): part ways with you
S Child (10:41 PM): maybe it is a midlife thing
Michelle (10:41 PM): maybe yours is too
S Child (10:41 PM): the midlife thing is a very real phenomanon for guys
Michelle (10:42 PM): why did you get with such a young girl
S Child (10:42 PM): no i already had my midlife thing before i met her
Michelle (10:42 PM): a pretty, young girl
S Child (10:43 PM): i think that was part of the problem. she wanted me to be her "daddy" from the beginning and i indulged her. but i wanted a companion that could be a partner with me too
Michelle (10:43 PM): do you think there is a chance for my husband and i at all? or you and her at all?
Michelle (10:43 PM): you didn't want that too?
S Child (10:44 PM): well i cant answer for you Michelle but for me i dont think theres any chances of ever being with Jenny again
Michelle (10:44 PM): oh so her name is jenny
Michelle (10:44 PM): do you still talk to her at all?
S Child (10:44 PM): yea we talk.
Michelle (10:44 PM): why?
Michelle (10:45 PM): does she know how you feel?
S Child (10:45 PM): i have tried to remain friends and have some decency about the breakup
S Child (10:46 PM): she is having trouble with the breakup
Michelle (10:46 PM): does she know you are seeing other people?
Michelle (10:46 PM): she ? why?
S Child (10:46 PM): she's a drama queen
S Child (10:46 PM): i.m not seeing other people.
Michelle (10:47 PM): doesn't your ad imply that you are interested in meeting another woman?
S Child (10:47 PM): some creepy women responded to that ad. i'm not on dating sites, and havent been frequenting the mall. u r the only nice lady i've talked to
S Child (10:48 PM): i dont take meeting people lightly anymore
Michelle (10:48 PM): so, why do you say she is having a problem with the break- up? does she know you are 'done'?
S Child (10:48 PM): i'm afraid another 4 years might get snatched away from me
Michelle (10:49 PM): i only ask because of my own situation.
S Child (10:49 PM): she ought to know i've told her in no uncertain terms
S Child (10:49 PM): has he told you in no uncertain terms ?
Michelle (10:49 PM): what would you do if she stopped talking to you?
S Child (10:49 PM): i would be happy !
Michelle (10:50 PM): no, he says he wants to try maybe, but then he changes his mind.
Michelle (10:50 PM): you would behappy/
Michelle (10:50 PM): wow.
S Child (10:50 PM): your relationship sounds a lot different than mine
Michelle (10:50 PM): maybe you should tell her that, sidney
Michelle (10:50 PM): i dont think so.
S Child (10:51 PM): i'm afraid she will get ugly and nasty if i do
S Child (10:51 PM): she scares me
Michelle (10:51 PM): she does? how?
S Child (10:51 PM): she can scream and yell really loud. and she says awful things
Michelle (10:52 PM): well if you tell her to go away maybe she will.
Michelle (10:52 PM): she is young and pretty.
Michelle (10:52 PM): the young heal quickly.
S Child (10:52 PM): we'll see
Michelle (10:52 PM): if you don;t care about her i think you should make it clear to her
S Child (10:53 PM): i like to make small talk and joke around and stuff. is that so bad ?
Michelle (10:53 PM): if you would be happy to have her gone, then let her go
S Child (10:54 PM): she always wanted to be serious and have a lot of really, deep feelings and large emotions - "drama" with capitol D
S Child (10:54 PM): Not Compatible is the diagnosis i think, prognosis to remain the same
Michelle (10:54 PM): what is wrong with deep feelings?
Michelle (10:54 PM): so why be friends
S Child (10:55 PM): u dont have to wear them on your sleaves all the time and be narrow- minded and intolerant
Michelle (10:55 PM): doesn;t sound like you like her at all
S Child (10:55 PM): not really
S Child (10:55 PM): i am tolerant person
S Child (10:56 PM): did i mention "judgmental" also ? another of my dislikes - dont like really judgmental people
Michelle (10:56 PM): but aren;t you judging her?
S Child (10:56 PM): yea. judging the judge
Michelle (10:57 PM): hopefuly she will go away. since you won't miss her.
S Child (10:57 PM): i feel like i am getting a free psychotherapy session, courtesy of CL. i like it !
Michelle (10:57 PM): good
Michelle (10:57 PM): it helps me too, believe me
Michelle (10:57 PM): you have NO idea
S Child (10:58 PM): i will hope the best for you and your husband
S Child (10:58 PM): since this is free therapy for me, i feel like i should do something nice for you
Michelle (10:58 PM): oh yeah, like?
S Child (10:59 PM): well thats the hard part that takes some imagination
S Child (10:59 PM): .........hmmm
Michelle (10:59 PM): how thoughful of you
S Child (10:59 PM): .....maybe a backrub or something !
S Child (10:59 PM): hehe
Michelle (11:00 PM): you must be really horny after not having sex with your pretty girlfriend for so long
S Child (11:00 PM): hehehe silly me
S Child (11:00 PM): ....hmmm
S Child (11:01 PM): like i said just a regular guy here !
Michelle (11:01 PM): i'm horny too
S Child (11:01 PM): i guess thats just eh way things are
S Child (11:01 PM): but i like to think at my age i have a little more self- control
Michelle (11:01 PM): so, when shall we meet?
S Child (11:02 PM): i dont know what do u think?
S Child (11:02 PM): that would be fun
Michelle (11:02 PM): what are your plans for this weekend?
S Child (11:03 PM): heres where my job just makes me mad
S Child (11:03 PM): i might not have much of a weekend
Michelle (11:04 PM): are you doing something this saturday night
S Child (11:04 PM): but for you i would drive out to Rio Rancho anytime
S Child (11:04 PM): i think i did make plans, with my sister and some of her friends. what are you doing Sunday ?
Michelle (11:05 PM): whatcha doing this saturday
Michelle (11:05 PM): we should meet right now!
S Child (11:05 PM): but i am old geezer who has to hop out of bed at 7 AM
Michelle (11:06 PM): ok i have classes at 8
S Child (11:06 PM): are u dating really ?
Michelle (11:06 PM): i am willing to meet you
S Child (11:06 PM): i would like to meet u 2
Michelle (11:06 PM): yeah. your perspective on your x has given me perspective
Michelle (11:07 PM): maybe he doesn't like me either
S Child (11:07 PM): well i hope it helps and u feel better and not worse
Michelle (11:07 PM): it makes me feel worse, but that's ok. I'll get ove rhim.
S Child (11:07 PM): i,m sorry
S Child (11:08 PM): maybe we should talk on the phone - like tomorrow?
Michelle (11:08 PM): ok.
S Child (11:09 PM): it would be nice to hear your voice
Michelle (11:09 PM): so are you busy all day saturday?
S Child (11:09 PM): yea its going to be rough
Michelle (11:09 PM): i see.
Michelle (11:09 PM): are you dating?
S Child (11:10 PM): if i met you i guess technically i would be
Michelle (11:10 PM): i guess if you don't like her and want her to go away, you should.
S Child (11:11 PM): so i can call u tomorrow really? it would be "a phone date" - like we are teenagers
Michelle (11:11 PM): i'll call you.
S Child (11:11 PM): ! theres an idea
S Child (11:11 PM): what time would you like 'teach ?
Michelle (11:12 PM): you don't have to go yet do you
S Child (11:12 PM): o no
Michelle (11:12 PM): ok good
S Child (11:12 PM): i am having 2 much fun
Michelle (11:12 PM): do you think jenny will be upset if you fall in love with me and we get married
S Child (11:12 PM): yes terribly
Michelle (11:13 PM): do you care?
S Child (11:13 PM): no
S Child (11:13 PM): so u havent dated at all ?
Michelle (11:14 PM): you said last night you fear regretting your choice though
Michelle (11:14 PM): no
S Child (11:14 PM): we all fear regretting our choices but i think i am realistic
Michelle (11:14 PM): you dont care about her
S Child (11:14 PM): u poor thing
Michelle (11:15 PM): dont want to be her friend
Michelle (11:15 PM): why are you pretending to? just out of fear?
S Child (11:15 PM): no i do care about her - very much actually - how could i not after being with her this long. i just want her to be happy and ok - just WITHOUT me
Michelle (11:16 PM): you would be happy if she went away
Michelle (11:16 PM): you wouldn;t miss her at all?
S Child (11:17 PM): if i had more positive, happy memories of being with her, i might miss her more. but part of hte problem she never seemed to understand is i wanted to make good memories with her, something we could build a relationship on.
Michelle (11:18 PM): are you aware of how men re- write history?
S Child (11:18 PM): she just wanted to be petty and childish and have daily drama that got in the way of al the good memories we could have had. im a littel bitter in case u hadnt notices
Michelle (11:18 PM): remember things a certain way
Michelle (11:19 PM): did you ever re- marry?
S Child (11:19 PM): well maybe all the bad things she has said about me are true but i got really tired of hearing about it all the time
Michelle (11:20 PM): so you are not intersted at all in ever getting back with her?
Michelle (11:20 PM): and you told her that
S Child (11:21 PM): hold on a minute been nursing a beer be right back
Michelle (11:21 PM): ok
S Child (11:23 PM): hey
Michelle (11:24 PM): hi
Michelle (11:24 PM): so you broke the little girl
Michelle (11:24 PM): s heart
Michelle (11:24 PM): 's heart
S Child (11:25 PM): im so excited u r going to call me tomorrow and if i dont scare you away i might get to meet you
S Child (11:25 PM): ye i did what a piece of crap i am
S Child (11:25 PM): heartbreaker love m n leave m
Michelle (11:25 PM): must make you feel good to havbe a pretty young girl want you so much
S Child (11:26 PM): it did at first but something was wrong and i shouldve known better
Michelle (11:27 PM): you said last night you wanted ot be her friend, now you say you would be happy if she never spoke to you again
Michelle (11:27 PM): confusing
S Child (11:27 PM): i know its compliacted no easy answers
Michelle (11:27 PM): which is it
S Child (11:28 PM): my first wife called me out of the blue 10 years after it was over just to say hello. it was really nice.
Michelle (11:29 PM): you were married a second time?
S Child (11:29 PM): i should tell u the truth
Michelle (11:29 PM): ok...
S Child (11:29 PM): jenny isnt just my girlfriend
Michelle (11:30 PM): no
Michelle (11:30 PM): oh my god
S Child (11:30 PM): she said all the right things to me and i married her
Michelle (11:30 PM): how can you care so little?
S Child (11:30 PM): i really wanted to make it work and tried so hard
Michelle (11:31 PM): and she wants to try? just like i do
Michelle (11:31 PM): and you just don;t care at all...
Michelle (11:31 PM): idou tell her? ? ? tell me the truth.
S Child (11:31 PM): but i quit trying and i told her many times i was getting nearer and nearer to that point
S Child (11:32 PM): you know Michelle - relationships are like a fabric. they are fragile
Michelle (11:32 PM): are you doing to her what my husband does to me?
Michelle (11:32 PM): they take work
Michelle (11:32 PM): marriage is a commitment.
S Child (11:33 PM): you can tear and tear at a cloth, and stitch it up and stitch it up "one more time", but after a while that cloth is going to be shredded and its just no good anymore
Michelle (11:33 PM): are you still married? ? ?
S Child (11:34 PM): when Humpty Dumpty fell off the wall, he couldnt be put back together again
Michelle (11:34 PM): thats such a cop out, sidney
Michelle (11:34 PM): come on.
S Child (11:34 PM): yea and im not 45 either
Michelle (11:34 PM): oh?
S Child (11:34 PM): i'm 44
Michelle (11:34 PM): oh. big deal
S Child (11:35 PM): but i feel like a 45 year old after 3 years with Jenny
Michelle (11:35 PM): i dont know what to say
S Child (11:36 PM): so Michelle - surely you had plenty of experience with relationships and breakups before your husband if it were such a short marriage
Michelle (11:36 PM): i guess so
Michelle (11:36 PM): but mariage is different
S Child (11:36 PM): yep. i took it serious and tried really hard
Michelle (11:37 PM): ok. so have you filed
S Child (11:37 PM): yea i have its in the works
S Child (11:37 PM): i am a man of action
Michelle (11:38 PM): oh, so she will be served soon
Michelle (11:38 PM): i see
Michelle (11:38 PM): does she know you filed
S Child (11:39 PM): yes she found out this past week we are trying to talk terms Michelle i have really enjoyed talking to you you seem like such a nice lady
S Child (11:39 PM): she knew the breakup was coming before i left
Michelle (11:39 PM): oh so she has recieved the papers?
S Child (11:40 PM): yea
Michelle (11:40 PM): thats good
S Child (11:41 PM): i am not a liar or cheat in spite of my clever little lonly- hearts CL ad, and you i can tell are having a difficult time
S Child (11:41 PM): u vulnerable and hurt
Michelle (11:41 PM): so you didnt give her any hope that you would reconcile
S Child (11:42 PM): no its been important to me that i have the decency to be straight with her, so she can get on with her life and try to be happy without me
Michelle (11:42 PM): when did you last see eachother
S Child (11:43 PM): last week i see her every week. we share custody of Milo the dog
Michelle (11:43 PM): what did you do
S Child (11:44 PM): we just talk and try to be civil and nice. go out for lunch or a walk n talk
S Child (11:44 PM): im afraid it will turn ugly though
Michelle (11:44 PM): why do you do that if you dont want he rin your life
Michelle (11:45 PM): out of fear?
S Child (11:45 PM): breaking up is hard and yea i do fear her
Michelle (11:45 PM): do you miss her is that why you do it
Michelle (11:46 PM): will you cut off all communication after the divorce
S Child (11:46 PM): no i dont really miss her. i just want to be done with it and get on with my life. if we are friends after, good but i wont really miss her
Michelle (11:47 PM): so you just spend time with her because you are afraid? what are you so afraid of?
S Child (11:47 PM): when it gets right down to it we really just werent compatible enough, and we dont have mutual friends so i dont believe i will see her after the divorce. it will all become a mostly- bad memory
Michelle (11:47 PM): oh. well you should tell her that right now.
S Child (11:48 PM): she blackmails me and threatens me about how bad she will smear me in court if she doesnt get what she wants
Michelle (11:48 PM): smear you?
Michelle (11:48 PM): how?
S Child (11:48 PM): so i try to be nice and reasonable with her
Michelle (11:48 PM): thats not right
S Child (11:48 PM): shes just crazy willing to air every petty detail,
Michelle (11:48 PM): you are leading her on
S Child (11:49 PM): if she cant have me back Michelle its all about the money. she has taunted me about her "eager" lawyers and all the auditing and crap she will do
Michelle (11:50 PM): i see, so what have you dont to protect your assets
S Child (11:50 PM): why do things have to be this way ?
S Child (11:51 PM): i was so good to her
Michelle (11:52 PM): i think if you really loved her, you would be with her right now, but whatever. how will you protect yourself?
Michelle (11:52 PM): maybe you never loved her
Michelle (11:52 PM): you have a good lawyer?
S Child (11:53 PM): i dont think i did. all i know now is i am happier than i have been in a longtime just to have the peace adn quiet of own company, and i will be glad when its all behind me. how about you? is yours almost done ?
S Child (11:54 PM): yea i have good lawyer
Michelle (11:55 PM): if you didn;t love her why did you marry her? what are you doing to protect yourself, sidney? it sounds serious.
S Child (11:55 PM): it is serious, thats why i have a good lawyer
Michelle (11:55 PM): wow. you never love dyour wife?
Michelle (11:55 PM): i hope she figures that out.
Michelle (11:56 PM): poor thing.
S Child (11:57 PM): i think i hoped my feelings would grow. i liked her well enough. she said all the right things to me. i thought we would make good memories together and love each other more as time went by
Michelle (11:57 PM): i guess you wasted four years of her life too.
Michelle (11:57 PM): you liked her? thatS IT?
S Child (11:57 PM): i think so
Michelle (11:57 PM): poor girl
S Child (11:57 PM): depressing isnt it ?
Michelle (11:57 PM): how could you do that
S Child (11:58 PM): how could i be such a dumbass
S Child (11:58 PM): but she insisted we get married
Michelle (11:58 PM): why didnt you love her?
S Child (11:58 PM): i wanted to take our time and build a better relationship before we tied the know
S Child (11:59 PM): ut that wasnt good enough for her. story of hte relationship
Michelle (11:59 PM): so why did you MARRY HER
S Child (11:59 PM): i thougth i wanted to settle down and have children. we talked about that
S Child (12:00 AM): Michelle its past my bedtime
Michelle (12:00 AM): so you married a young girl you didn;t love becaus you wanted children and now you don;t care if you never speak to her again?
S Child (12:01 AM): she manipulated me into marrying her
S Child (12:01 AM): you should see the jewelry she Demanded i buy her
Michelle (12:01 AM): i guess i'll need your phone number if you want me to call you
S Child (12:01 AM): and the trips she said i had to take her on
Michelle (12:01 AM): do you have free will?
Michelle (12:02 AM): why did you do it?
S Child (12:02 AM): i was an idiot
Michelle (12:02 AM): because she was pretty?
Michelle (12:02 AM): maybe she's an idiot! lol
S Child (12:02 AM): well she is pretty. u still want to call ?
Michelle (12:02 AM): she sounds kind of dumb
Michelle (12:03 AM): sure
S Child (12:03 AM): well shes a lot smarter now - has had to learn things the hard way too. i warned her so many times
Michelle (12:03 AM): would you really be happy if she went away/
S Child (12:03 AM): im so excited
S Child (12:04 AM): what time shall i be waiting by the phone ?
Michelle (12:04 AM): how about now
S Child (12:04 AM): 610- 4507
S Child (12:05 AM): let your fingers do the talkin
Michelle (12:05 AM): can i call now
S Child (12:05 AM): yea
S Child (12:06 AM): where did u go
Michelle (12:07 AM): hold on
Michelle (12:07 AM): i'm about to call you ok
S Child (12:08 AM): ok

Oct 2 - 1PM
kiwi10
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i did thank her, actually.

i did thank her, actually. we are friends now, and she thinks he is scum. would you say this is typical behaviour of a psychopath when in the luring stage?
Oct 1 - 2PM
hopefuljms
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Well you should thank her!!

Well you should thank her!! She certainly did you a favor. He is a total d bag! I think I just found my exN on a dating site. His pic doesn't show his face but I am pretty sure it's him. I am trying to chat with him (under a different name), if he responds and i verify it is him. I am going to send the transcript to his new child bride anonymously. This way she can get out before she is in too deep!
Oct 1 - 1PM
wholeagain
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Hmm...

Was this you posing as another woman? Her questions are sooooo incredibly targeted to your situation it's uncanny. Any way you slice it he's a wanker.
Oct 1 - 1PM
hopefuljms
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Awesome!! Was this

Awesome!! Were you Michelle pretending to be a stranger??? Also, is 610 his area code?? If so, that's where I live!!!
Oct 1 - 1PM
Briseis
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It's pretty long so I

It's pretty long so I skimmed it and definitely read a few parts carefully. I tell you what. I feel sorry for MICHELLE. She's a couple of sandwiches short of a picnic, but at least she calls him out. He completely ignores her. Here's what's interesting. Not ONCE does he say something like "I made mistakes, too." That is a major red flag. Any normal guy would have normal doubts about himself, right or wrong, and would feel SOME responsibility for a breakup. And he doesn't correct Michelle when she calls you a GF instead of a wife. Your ex is a classic sonofabitch. A womanizer and one sick f*ck. Sorry for the cursing :( . He is a very bad person. And you can see him working over Michelle and her turning cartwheels around him trying to kiss his ass. Disgusting and sad. I promise you, Fierflie . . . in a very short time, you will look back on him and be horrified and so grateful you escaped with at least some of your sanity.
Oct 1 - 2PM (Reply to #2)
kiwi10
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briesis

yeah, something like, i had to beat her with a belt because she was so demanding and dramatic...