Was my ex a narc??

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Was my ex a narc??

My ex just dumped me a few weeks ago. He said he wanted some space to figure out what he wanted (we had been planning on marriage for a long time)but he said now he was scared and despite being the one who came on strong saying I was his dream girl, now I'm the one who forced everything down his throat. He had been married before and it did not end well. I agreed to give him some space and by the next week found out he's seeing a girl at work. He always had major issues with his ego. He was short and had an obession with being good in bed. I gave him so much reassurance and made him feel good about himself. I noticed over a few months he started being distant with me. He seemed to feel he was becoming popular at work and well liked and would often come home bragging about accomplishments. It's like the people at work were more important. What concerned me was his aggressiveness at work. He works in the ED and would brag about being rough with patients who were difficult or getting to escort them out and made fun of them and such. He was never abusive to me, but he did critize me a lot over stupid things but in a sarcastic way. (You're such a slob, you can't put the toilet paper on right, etc) alot of this sounds like a narc, but are they able to admit that they don't feel good about themselves because he had told me that he needs people to do that for him.

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It sounds like...
Snowbunny
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I like that illustration,
Deestarr
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sorry
Snowbunny
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Thanks. I am finding comfort
Deidre40
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Something I learned over the
Snowbunny
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Thank you for the
janemarie
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You have got to read Lisa's
Snowbunny
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I am thankful we didn't
janemarie
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Hes getting what he needs
onwithmylife
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i do
Snowbunny
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Yeah, he's a jerk for sure.
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