What did he not let you do, not agree with etc... Let's share! Im looking for a giggle!

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#1 Aug 8 - 7AM
Lovely1
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What did he not let you do, not agree with etc... Let's share! Im looking for a giggle!

I'll start with me...what did he not like, kick up a fuss about, sook about and basically be a narc about-

* My FB, apparently I used it to much and didnt pay enough attention to him. If I was logged into the Chat function, he would interrogate why, who was I speaking to etc etc. Never ending story this was with us.

*My phone, who I messaged, what I said etc

*Wanted to be with me all the time, was a bit of a trial seeing my friends while he was around.

*Didnt want me conversing with my ex bf; but him seeing his,because they have a kid, is OK.

*Didnt like my friends who told me to leave him

*Hated me wearing pyjamas-not sexy enough, not enough of a whore..madonna/whore complex

*I didnt stay over his place when his dad was away; he used to have a little fit that I didnt put enough time into making an effort to spend nights together.

*Didnt like when I would go to the local shops or anywhere really without telling him. He went everywhere without telling me. Nice double standards. Enmeshment yeh?!

*Didnt like that I never told my parents about him or even introduced him. He didnt introduce me either; again double standards.

*Hated that I didnt talk much, didnt participate in discussions to let him know much of my life. This was intentional on my part. Clearly! They use info you tell them against you in future.

*I never put him on a pedestal. This irritated him greatly.

*If I talked about what I read on FB on someones post, he would get annoyed and ask me why I cared. That I didnt put enough time into our rship than I did caring about others.

*If we went out for coffee/dinner, why was I looking around at other people/checking ppl out? Ummm I wasnt. So to appease I would choose a table that faced away from the crowd and look at him and the wall. Sad huh!

*Didnt like me opposing his ideas or saying that we werent soul mates.

*Didnt want me to buy him stuff or be prententious

*Said that I valued money over love and children

*If I didnt respond to msgs quickly enough or didnt much on the phone while at work.

*I was too cold/too clinical/too stand offish/an ice queen/not maternal etc etc. This is called my defense mechanism. I knew what was coming.

*That I didnt trust him and he was sick of 'defending' himself. For real.... ;/

* He hated that I never initiated intimacy, that it was always him. Made him feel unloved and gave him a complex...

I am sure I can think of more as we go along but these are the ones that stand out for me at present.

*ohhh another one, he would meet me after I would have an evening meeting, expecting sex, I clearly was in no mood; so he would sulk off. NO SHIT, he would just leave...LOL. Things really turned sour for me from then on. No real loving bf EVER leaves when you turn him down like a sooky child. Sucks to be his ego...

Share away lovely ladies! I am sure we will have many many similarities and overlaps :)

xx
Lovely1

Aug 28 - 7PM
cassia
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Well let me see... * He hated

Aug 28 - 2PM
mystwoman
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Xnh would try to tell me how

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Aug 28 - 1PM
FedUp81
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My annoying ass NH:

Aug 26 - 1AM
Pumpkin
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Didn't like

Pumpkin

Aug 25 - 8PM
onwithmylife
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ah the masters of double, triple standards.....

Aug 25 - 8PM
Journey
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He thought it was ridiculous

Journey on...

Aug 28 - 1PM (Reply to #67)
FedUp81
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OMG my nh says the dishwasher

Aug 24 - 2PM
Grymel
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My list is long but I will summarize it:

Aug 26 - 6PM (Reply to #65)
loverofdoug
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what he did not let me do

Aug 24 - 3AM
evergreen
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too subtle to object outright.

Aug 24 - 3AM (Reply to #57)
Lovely1
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Evergreen- in the same! This

Aug 24 - 6AM (Reply to #58)
evergreen
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sole focus.

Aug 24 - 6AM (Reply to #59)
Lovely1
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Sole focus on him-exactly

Aug 24 - 7AM (Reply to #60)
evergreen
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trust!

Aug 24 - 1PM (Reply to #61)
yokidoki
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Kissing and cuddling

Aug 26 - 11PM (Reply to #63)
eyesopened
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Touching affectionately was off limits

Aug 25 - 10PM (Reply to #62)
blondelover2
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Mine too

Aug 24 - 1AM
jelyma
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A few of mine: -the house was

Aug 24 - 1AM
no more an echo
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narcs are fussy little queens

Aug 24 - 12AM
Im_always_fine
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I wasn't allowed to leave the

Aug 23 - 9PM
DawnWins
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Remembered a few more Wasn't

Aug 23 - 5PM
Katherine2081
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Wasnt allowed to/ Didnt like

Aug 23 - 11PM (Reply to #51)
Im_always_fine
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LMAO! Feel his guns

Aug 23 - 9PM (Reply to #50)
DawnWins
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I see we were married to

Aug 23 - 4PM
Sickofhim
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He couldn't stand if I..

Aug 26 - 11PM (Reply to #48)
eyesopened
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OH...the drama

Aug 23 - 4PM
rainy76
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What he didn't like and would have tantrums over...

Aug 23 - 4PM
Im_always_fine
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I was not allowed to stand on

Aug 23 - 10PM (Reply to #43)
ValiditySeeker
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Well, you've got me curious

Aug 23 - 11PM (Reply to #45)
kollontai77
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OMG the strange rules.....