When They Make You Think You Aren't Attractive Enough for Them

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#1 Mar 29 - 6PM
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When They Make You Think You Aren't Attractive Enough for Them

Feb 10 - 10AM
peacewarrior
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No. 1 Beauty

It is characteristic of N personalities to disotrt things and are delusional what they posess is an extension of them or proof of their Number One grandiose fictional self. My ex alarmed me crying when Ms. America was crowned..I kid you not..crying. Insidiously I was aware from him that wherever we went I'd not ever be the "most beautiful" woman anywhere. The exH revealed himself in rages he was consumed that even when I was somewhere by myself that people would "see me and only be thinking of him" inclusive of my appearance!. I detect sick thinking "if" a N posessed a Ms. America or Universe in his mind he'd be "the best perfect in the world"..the extension on his arm be "proof" of pathalogical grandiosity. Thinking about his Ms. America fixation or Ms. Universe...there are so many, the world is full of attractive, pretty persons and few chose to dedicate self to pageantry. Shame on me for my efforts to be 'acceptable to him' to not have seen my self as I was and enjoy my physical body, appearance so busy to correct "flaws"...constantly told flaws about me until I came to have distortions..body distortions. When I did my work to see my physical self accurately..abuse for the m f;;;;ker lost that "control" over me...hallelujiah..free from such cruel abuse!When I paid attention to other human beings their comments, looks...people validated the accuracy of my appearance. In contrast when the sicko would crack his verbal whip at me cruelly then erupt in rages I came to understsand his true intentions. My appearance, looks, even what some might call a hot body for a woman with four kids..was "all" for him and I to walk around believing I am so unattractive..no one would touch me with a ten foot pole... These sickos..don't care about their self,exercise or do much about their appearance and will abuse the hell out of those around them..pyscho land.
Feb 10 - 11AM (Reply to #7)
quietude (not verified)
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crying?

I'm sorry, but him crying during the Miss America pageant? snort!! You cannot make this stuff up..
Feb 11 - 5PM (Reply to #16)
peacewarrior
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quietude-I am creative but

quietude-I am creative but you have it straight you can't make this stuff up! The good news is I have a choice about the rest of my life not trying to get anything 'right' not be "too fat" or "too thin" jumping through hoops by any ring master, dizy, knocked off balance nor shock tactics.
Feb 10 - 2PM (Reply to #8)
Barbara (not verified)
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Centerfold Syndrome

http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com/2006/05/centerfold-syndrome-psychologist-dr.html I just get such a big kick out of how fugly these Ns and Ps are and how they think beautiful women should just FLOCK to them - shows you how incurable their delusions are! When I read Psycho-boy's hooker reviews now I laugh that this pathetic old man thinks he's qualified to "rate" anyone! Here's him and his wife: http://www.jtsa.edu/Supporters/Regional_Offices/Long_Island_Regional_Office_Home_Page/LI_Events_-_Dix_Hills_Brunch.xml ~~~~~~~~~ The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem Visit My Abuse Website
Feb 11 - 9AM (Reply to #13)
rache
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Wow

the daughter is beautiful,buttttttttttttt,do i detect a pathology to her look>?
Feb 11 - 12PM (Reply to #14)
Barbara (not verified)
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rache

maybe... she was kicked out of a summer camp in 2003 for acting out sexually. She was about 13 or 14. the son however, really freaks me out... ~~~~~~~~~ The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem Visit My Abuse Website
Feb 11 - 4PM (Reply to #15)
rache
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i'd bet

shes like good ol dad.whats really weird is that same smile on all their faces=good family act.
Feb 10 - 2PM (Reply to #9)
quietude (not verified)
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yuck

He is too creepy, Barbara...what a shame he's flaunting his religion, yet nobody knows the predator he is. I think it would be hilarious if you took that 1st photo of them, somehow photoshopped the words "Douche-bag of the Year Award" on the plaque, and put it on your blog!
Feb 10 - 2PM (Reply to #10)
Barbara (not verified)
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quietude

I don't want to involve his wife - even though she participates in bashing me. His other girlfriends have posted him all over the place. On my blog about him and sociopaths in general I link to HIS blog. He really is PATHETIC... and he calls ME fat & ugly... LOL ~~~~~~~~~ The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem Visit My Abuse Website
Feb 10 - 3PM (Reply to #11)
quietude (not verified)
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Barbara

Well, I don't blame you for that. On some level, I really do feel sorry for any GF's of my ex, former, present, future. Isn't that something, not only you...but other GF's posting things, and the wife still turns a deaf ear. Wow! The name-calling is just such a shame. But I feel justified in calling them what they are ~ Scumbags!
Feb 10 - 6PM (Reply to #12)
Barbara (not verified)
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quietude

speaking truth and smearing someone are 2 different things. I tell it like it is. Psycho-Boy is a Sociopath and a Predator. ~~~~~~~~~ The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem Visit My Abuse Website
Feb 10 - 10AM
peacewarrior
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No. 1 Beauty

It is characteristic of N personalities to disotrt things and are delusional what they posess is an extension of them or proof of their Number One grandiose fictional self. My ex alarmed me crying when Ms. America was crowned..I kid you not..crying. Insidiously I was aware from him that wherever we went I'd not ever be the "most beautiful" woman anywhere. The exH revealed himself in rages he was consumed that even when I was somewhere by myself that people would "see me and only be thinking of him" inclusive of my appearance!. I detect sick thinking "if" a N posessed a Ms. America or Universe in his mind he'd be "the best perfect in the world"..the extension on his arm be "proof" of pathalogical grandiosity. Thinking about his Ms. America fixation or Ms. Universe...there are so many, the world is full of attractive, pretty persons and few chose to dedicate self to pageantry. Shame on me for my efforts to be 'acceptable to him' to not have seen my self as I was and enjoy my physical body, appearance so busy to correct "flaws"...constantly told flaws about me until I came to have distortions..body distortions. When I did my work to see my physical self accurately..abuse for the m f;;;;ker lost that "control" over me...hallelujiah..free from such cruel abuse!When I paid attention to other human beings their comments, looks...people validated the accuracy of my appearance. In contrast when the sicko would crack his verbal whip at me cruelly then erupt in rages I came to understsand his true intentions. My appearance, looks, even what some might call a hot body for a woman with four kids..was "all" for him and I to walk around believing I am so unattractive..no one would touch me with a ten foot pole... These sickos..don't care about their self,exercise or do much about their appearance and will abuse the hell out of those around them..pyscho land.
Feb 10 - 1AM
Barbara (not verified)
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When They Make You Think You Aren't Attractive Enough for Them

See Link in Top Post ~~~~~~~~~ The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem Visit My Abuse Website
Aug 14 - 3PM
Barbara (not verified)
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you're too fat or not pretty enough

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Jun 4 - 5PM
Barbara (not verified)
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attractiveness

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Aug 15 - 10AM (Reply to #2)
quietude (not verified)
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attractiveness

Because they're stupid...sorry but when they look at 'real world women' compared to what they see in magazines, duhhh, why do they think there's such a difference??