Why can't they be pleased? (Just Curious)
Why can't they be pleased? (Just Curious)
I am just curious as to why Narcissists can't be pleased. I had an incident today with my N husband. He went off on me again. He loses his stuff all the time and blames it on me or the kids. He needed a piece of workout equipment again and claimed he saw our autistic son playing with it. Since I stay at home, I see everything, and I'm positive my son was not playing with this piece of equipment. Normally, he blames the kids when he loses something, and then he'll find it in his car or someplace else he left it.
Anyway, he took it as an opportunity to go off on me and tell me how I don't do anything for him (I practically do everything but wipe his ass when he sh**s) and how I don't give a damn about him, and he was going to find someone else who actually cares.
Two weeks ago he told me that if I just put his uniform together before work and made sure the kitchen was clean at night he would be happy. According to him 2 weeks ago, that's ALL I needed to do. Not to mention I do the laundry, clean the house, take care of the kids, etc. etc. etc. So that is not all I do for him. I do A LOT more.
Now he wants me to make his breakfast and lunch for him before he goes to work even though 2 weeks ago he told me he do that himself, no problem. I said to him, "After I start making all your breakfasts and lunches before work, what else will you pick to make me wrong? It's never enough. You're impossible!!!" First all he needs is this. Then he needs that. Then he needs something else. It never ends and he always comes back to you don't do anything for me. You suck.
He then told me that I was a frigid bitch and that I sucked in bed. This is because he only tries to have sex with me at 3:00 in the morning. And since women hit on him all the time because he's a cop, he's going to take adavantage of "all the p***y out there" to quote him exactly.
No matter what I do for this man it's never enough. So, I ask again, what is the psychology behing this "you can never please me no matter what I ask you to do" mentally? Thanks for your insight.
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Ending the dance
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I tell you how I feel, but you don't care. I say, "Tell me the truth," but you don't dare. You say love is a hell you cannot bear. And I say, "Give me mine back and then go there for all I care!" - Fiona Apple (Sleep to Dream)
Staying with him will cause
Ending the dance
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