Yes! He moved away! Far, far away!
Yes! He moved away! Far, far away!
I found out today that my exN and his childbride moved South from the city they were living in. This is adding another 45 minutes, at least to the distance between us from where they were living. A good hour away! The traffic to get to this town, which is close to the AFB here in WA, is horrible. The childbride is still working as a teacher in Tacoma 40 min drive, if she is lucky, from their new home. I am guessing they moved here because he works down in that area now. He loves that area and tried to get me to move there when we were looking at homes. He grew up not far from there and wanted to go back to his childhood memories. We would take our boys on weekends to this area and hang out in Olympia, explore the rivers and parks. Now he is doing it with the childbride. Coincidence? I dont think so. I couldnt move there because my work was not available there. I needed to be near the software hub up North. He pouted when I was talking this out with him, "but where will i work? in the city, i will take a 40k pay cut!" I was not willing to do that! So, I am thrilled that he is not around here on the weekends. It wont be easy for him to drive by anymore. I feel sorry for his wife because she has a horrible commute. But, I'm sure he convinced her it was the best for the family and her little girls. This childbride has moved them already 4 times in 2 yrs.
What gets me though, i looked up the homes in that area on Zillow and it is a tri-plex condo, they are renting and the rent goes for 1400 or so a month. He threw a fit when I asked for 500 a month from him when he moved in! That pisses me off! How can he now be willing to merge funds and pay rent like that and not even pay me equal share in my home? What makes her so special, besides being his wife, that he is doing this? Even when he lived with me for the last 6 months of our relationship, he went back to school. I supported him 100% and lent him 5k to pay his bills! When he cashed in his 401k, he gave me back the money and 500 extra toward the expense of him living here for 6 months! are you f$%king kidding me?!
How can a Narc be ok with splitting the rent with one girl, and he did this with her in their condo before this place and that was about the same price, and not with me? Now their new place has 3 bedrooms for his son and her two little girls. Happy, happy family! Gag! But, I wonder if he told her this is where he wants and needs to live because of work and she was all willing to not challenge him or argue...because he is the man and husband.
I'm happy but yet pissed at the same time that he is making this life with someone else when he would convince me and say, "i see/saw us married" and take me house shopping, ring shopping all the time! I feel so used but glad he isn't around here anymore.
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
I guess it is common...
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OMG! That's horrible
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and the neighborhood is where we looked in 2008!
It looks like to me is what
You are right!