No Closure: Has anyone else experienced this?
No Closure: Has anyone else experienced this?
One of the biggest hurdles of getting over my "N" is dealing with the fact that he has never said "good bye", not ever after the D&D's and when I have tried to, he would not accept it.
There was never the closure I would expect in a normal relationship.
This last time he devalued me and discarded me after I confronted him with some painful truths. I refused to play his pretend game anymore and told him I WOULD NOT. I also told him exactly what he his. We did not argue, he just sat there like everything was just fine. Didn't say one thing after I told him what I knew, and what I could not do anymore.
After that day, there was complete silence. I have not contacted him, nor has he contacted me. After seven years, it seems to be all over, without any explanations or acknowledgment of this on his part.
Almost like he is telling me to walk away from him, it is OK, it all meant nothing to him.
I have been here in this place before with him. I am so afraid he is going to try and worm his way into my life again--to try and feed from and rekindle his supply source.
We create the closure we want
Shock and Awesome
Lack of closure with a narc
Debra
I can relate...
Here is another question...
So true
There is no closure with a Narcissist; No loyalty factor
Amen
Closure never to be found
Why no closure?
I see it as they never cared
Correct.
and sometimes i wonder if
Their inability to love
"Are they so weak they just
Debra
In my experience closure