How do I get past feeling sorry for him
How do I get past feeling sorry for him
Married to my soon-to-be-ex (the narcissist) for almost 9 years. Moved out 1 year ago. We own a business together that is struggling due to the economy (?)
He made a stupid career move after I moved out. He has an MBA and was making a good income with great benefits. He was always dissatified with the job because he thought he was so much better.
Anyway, things look like they are going to implode on him and he is very depressed. However, still not able to see things for what they are, be honest about his decisions - you know the drill. He turned 60 last week and I know how hard that probably was on him.
My daughter helped me to realize that what I am mourning is the loss of "what I thought our marriage could have been".
I'm sure that this is what happens in divorces even when narcissism isn't involved.
I think the fact that he is older brings a very different perspective to narcissism. Do men that are entering the supposed retirement years handle things differently?
How do I get past feeling sorry for him? Worrying about his well-being? Maybe even suicidal thoughts (his, not mine)?
Gloria
It seems to get worse and
Thanks for the advice. I
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Empathy
I agree
I don't feel hate now. Never
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Hi, oh yes he condemns me
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mallory
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lol - opposites
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like most bullies....
bullies
Thanks for that. Yes I agree
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