maybe it IS me.
maybe it IS me.
My mom is saying the exact same things to me as my husband did. She says I am trying to be the boss of her house. That is what he used to say. She says that she is sick of my attitude and that she doesn't want to hear my mouth anymore, and to just shut up. She tells me it doesn't matter what I say and to keep my opinions to myself. She says she doesn't have a problem with him because he has never done anything to her. She isn't evan upset with him for abusing me, abandoning the kids, mistreating my older boys, witholding money, throwing me and the kids out of our house, leaving me with the bad car, calling me names when I was 9 months pregnant in front of everyone...ect.
Everyday she yells and criticizes me. If I clean she says she can't find anything and can't stand living this way. If I don't she complains that the house is dirty. If I leave she calls me over and over. She says I have problems and need help and that I will never be happy or succesful. Last week she hugged my husband. She has not hugged me once during all of this. And my stepdad backs her. He says you need to try to get along with your mother. Today we were driving in her car. I was looking down and not noticing the road. She slammed on her brakes and it scared me really bad. I have been so jumpy and easily startled. So I kind of jumped and said OH!! It really scared me. I thought we hit something. She said what is it? I said nothing you just scared me. And she said"oh no it's starting again" And I said what I can't help it that you startled me. She said why would you get scared of that. That is stupid, you need help" I said why are you treating me this way? She said I'm not, you are treating me bad.I really think she must be a narcisist. How could she treat me this way during one of the most dificult times of my life. Or is it me? Would anyone abuse me. It is the only kind of treatment I have ever recieved except from my kids and you guys. Is this kind of treatment ever justified? Am I crazy? Now my car is broke down for good. Things are getting worse. No home,no car, no job, no friends, no life. All I have are my kids wich he is threatening to take. And my mom interferes all the time with them.What if the judge is againt me too?
Thanks.
leah
Something is Wrong with Her
Mine drove like an absolute
"Cry now because you lost him or cry later because you have him."
leah
Leah, You are a self
http://hubpages.com/hub/Married-to-a-Narcissist?preview
nolongercontrolled
Leah of course it isn't you,
"Cry now because you lost him or cry later because you have him."
Leah
Leah - STOP THAT!!!!!
Leah!!
Leah