What do they feel?
What do they feel?
Interesting one this.. after reading the post on forgiveness. Which is a 'feeling'. What do they feel?
I know my ex (she). Would cry in corner about how she felt she has fucked her life up and screewed it up for her kids etc. But no remorse for the crap she has dealt out to past partners!
She would sometimes be in bed with self loathing 'i'm a bad mum i'm a bad person' (possibly because she was cheating or lining up the next victim) no matter how i would say that 'You're fabulous' 'You are such a wonderful person' 'i'm so lucky i have you in my life' and loads more.. God listening to myself now - Christ i was hooked!
I'm sure that they reflect on this at times and i think they envy any past partners/friends etc. doing well and being happy in their lifes etc. That's why NC is so final, solid and important.
So in conclusion I think they do have to deal with guilt, depression, and reflect on the BS/lies that they have dished out.
What do you guys think?
they feel only four things:
And I would add one more -Anger
It's always anger
they only regret their own personal loss.
minx
MIINX I think you're right...
regret
Tantrums
Weird crap...
I am like you, Bloke-
Bloke and Shaynasmommy-Have no doubt
But what about remorse?
"Be who you are, and say what you feel; for those who mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind." - Dr. Seuss
remorse....
Aceonelady
I think they already
almostlydia
We were all hooked
Narcissists and feelings
Similar situation
They don't feel guilt but shame
Again Jen you're right
crazy huh. never got a sorry
Bloke
Yes it does hurt, badly...
Apology avoidance
Even if she said it....
When you truly love someone
only one way to go...Forward (tm?)
Betty and Amy
Playedwithfire
Could not connect the dots
almostlydia
almostlydia
Playedwithfire
Happiness as the best revenge
Success as revenge