Hi! I'm new here...Signs you're dating a Narc!
Hi! I'm new here...Signs you're dating a Narc!
Hi! I'm new here...Signs your dating a Narc!
Thu, 03/03/2011 - 08:18 — MyNaturalState
I have no idea if my guy was a Narc or not, but I can tell you how much I can relate to everything I keep reading. I'm finding consistencies...let me know if you agree or can add any!
1. You constantly ask yourself, "What more can I do to make him love me?"
2. You are always waiting for the big change in him that will make everything perfect, but never seems to come.
3. Your anger towards something he did constantly turns into wondering if you're being overly sensitive.
4. You always ask yourself if it is something about you that makes him 'this' way. You wonder if there is some other women that could handle him better.
5. You wonder if there is some big dark secret about him that you don't know about. (And of course, you're not important enough to share it with.)
6. You're constantly making excuses for his very poor behavior and defending him even when he never asked you to.
7. Even though no one in your life likes him and how he treats you, you convince yourself that they just have no idea how great he is. They don't understand him like you do.
8. You wind up spending more time fantasizing about how you want it to be than thinking about how it really is.
9. Even after you've gone NC, you're still secretly hoping it all works out in the end.
10. You found that even during your 'high' moments, that your happiness is really not core deep. It's superficial because you know it's only temporary.
11. Your expectations have stooped to such a low that any old crumb makes you feel special and loved. Ugh...pathetic.
Wow these descriptions just
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8 & 10
MyNaturalstate
Ditto to Mandy and Journey
interesting, ally, I'd
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Thank you very much! I will
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Mine was never violent,
Our narcs sound like the same
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Journey and others
victimnomore
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I did not mean to imply
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this conversation about the
Agreed
VNM, please read down
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Yes. I think its harder to
Welcome:) Your list is dead
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Welcome!
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I have no doubt we were with
Journey, this is even more
Hitting home for sure on ALL
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OMG, SUCH good ones!
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