Can they tell Lies from the truth?
Can they tell Lies from the truth?
This has probably already been addressed or talked about and I just havent read it yet so I apologize. What I question is can they even tell the difference between their lies and the truth or is he as clueless as he seems?? I swear I think my N "blocks" some of the things that he has done and said and truly believes it never happened. I called him out on the fact that he was conversing by text and phone with a woman he went out with once last summer during one of our week or 2 break ups .. we got back together and during our "togetherness" he was texting her daily. I know this because I became quite the CSI while we were together .. and bottom line is I KNOW he was and he SWEARS that he NEVER did that. That the only time he EVER talked to another woman was this last time when I broke up with him. (whatever) But he seems to have no real sense of time and situations. Days could be months or months days. He says and does things and then later he looks so confused and befuddled when I recount something that at times .. I really believe he is not lying but that he has actually buried the things he has done and TOTALLY believes what he is saying. Is this typical? I have had some experience with this because my Dad was physically abusive to my mother and we witnessed it but to this day he denies that he ever layed a hand on her. I truly believe it is a sickness and that in order to live with himself he had to block it out and he now believes it himself. Anyways, it is one of the many things that makes me crazy about my N .. funny he can remember anything I ever said or did but his actions are always fuzzy .... I just wonder if it is deception or has he truly decieved himself into thinking he never did or said certain things???
Mine can't
Lying
lying
enoughalready
Loveofmylife..I have been asking myself the same questions
mentally ill, pathological liars!
i found the exact
After the first time we got
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"
i know i am kicking myself
The ex that he always tries
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"
email yuck
lying
This baffled me...
Mine was so split that there
Scoop i think mine has
only one way to go...Forward (tm?)
I swear I don't know
hey
trying2overcome
Great article on delusions
Great article
Same here
loveofmylife
Correct, SV is no longer banned from this site
I couldn't agree more
only one way to go...Forward (tm?)
Speaking of poetry and insight
GIJ
WOW !!
He is soo gross
Yep
I totally agree. I read so
Ending the dance