Credit cards, fancy cars, and designer clothes
Credit cards, fancy cars, and designer clothes
I'm just curious how many of your ex N's were driving fancy cars they could not afford and wear designer clothes and you later discovered how much debt they were in??
My N was driving a new Audio S4 ($37k)
One night i dropped off sushi at his house (he was at work) with my girlfriend.. and astonishingly found 14 CREDIT CARDS sprawled out on his dining room table.. with a paper citing how much he owed on each adding up to $17k..
Mind you, this man had atleast 20-30 pairs of designer jeans (true religion, rock n republic, MEK) tons of N shoes (Robert Wayne) and those ridiculous Ed Hardy, Monarchy shirts.. and took lavish trips to Vegas.
When I confronted him about all the cards he told me.. 'its fine' My assets are worth more than my debt (house + car (with massive payment) and his 401-K.
Yet he preached that we should watch Dave Ramsey every night and not waste our money on extra foods at the grocery store.. So much COGNITIVE DISSONANCE no wonder my brain feels fried..
fancy cars
Fancy clothes
another aspect of financial ruin
Me TOO
bankruptcy ..
too funny
jobs
Mine drove an Audi!
Ha, yeah...
things
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"
Here, here...
lol "all the debt is to
all on $18/hour????
Oh it is possible. Mine also
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"
wow....
I don't know....
amy
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"
what about all my stuff.. when they change (act like they are)
Insanity
No logic!
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"
flowers
oh yeah...
Wanted to borrow money
raibow your narc always
they are such aholes. he
the difference....
amy totally agree. i went
Same! I always tried to make
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"
Mine was just like that . He
gotta love the pity card.