The divorce is final and the narc had one last D&D for me. Unbelievable!

Hello Ladies,

Ok the divorce is final but not before true to narc form he had one last D&D for me. There were 8 divorces before ours and they all went smoothly with everyone answering all of the questions with a simple yes or no. The judge saved ours for last. (I wonder why?) LOL!
The judge went through all of the other divorces quickly and efficiently.

Now time for my divorce. The lawyer ask the narc a few questions and he answer yes or no. then here comes the big question. "Is there any chance of reconciliation'? THE NARC, "ABSOLUTELY NOT" The judge gathers her composure and then rips into the narc. She told him that these questions do not warrant negative answers aimed at hurting the other person. She said lets try the question again. (I just giggled to myself because secretly I had planned on saying the same thing and I was soooo happy that he went first).

Then they asked if he thought the settlement was fair and can he maintain the same lifestyle. The psycho starts to whine about how unfair the settlement is. the judge then said that she would not sign off on the document and grant a divorce if he think that it is totally unfair. then the psycho start apologizing to the judge and said that he just want it over with. (D&D #2) He was very angry and nasty. The judge took about 15 minutes explaining to him that he can go to trial and that no one is forcing him to settle. I was squirming in my seat by now because I wanted the divorce. I did not want to spend thousand of dollars on a trial.

Then the psycho start to tell the judge that his "plate is full" And he is just going to have to figure out how he is going to make it. At this point his voice starts to crack and he sound as if he is starting to cry. The court reporter and the sheriff have a look on their faces like WTF!

Now it's my turn and I answer all of the questions in about 3 minutes with all yes or no.
I am dignified and strong and will not let his words hurt me.

The judge put my allegations of abuse and embarrassment and anxiety over his behavior in the marriage and I am vindicated!

It's over!

I got:

My house
My car
My accounts
My own debt
Custody
Child support
Permanent Alimony
College Expenses
Child tax deduction
All of my assets
PEACE OF MIND!

PRICELESS!

Narc got:

His own car.
His own debt (tons of it)
To keep $40 of his own money weekly that I gave up from alimony.
To leave me the fuck alone!

I want to thank all of you ladies for your support and kind words during this journey.

We all will win in the end, just stay NC and the rest will fall into place.

Peace!