grossot update (help members!)

I'm very grateful for your prayers, love, and thoughtfulness. That PAS guy makes me want to hurl. Please pray that I will be granted a continuance in court. The ex H of the gf is willing to testify that she was not a good stepmother to his daughter. He has specific instances he can recall. I know exactly what Kathy Krajo means when she says perverted thinking. This I'd exactly the opposite of what should be happening. http://hubpages.com/hub/Married-to-a-Narcissist?preview nolongercontrolled

plain and simple......... “I do not bring forgiveness with me, nor forgetfulness. The only ones who can forgive are dead; the living have no right to forget." - Chaim Herzog

take her to another state..not a LIBERAL ONE...maybe a southern state, where they still revere motherhood.......and file to keep him away from her.... i would take her and leave...before he can do anything to keep your from taking her out of state, then you will have broken no laws.........then once you're in another state...they may not be quite so accomodating to the monster.... “I do not bring forgiveness with me, nor forgetfulness. The only ones who can forgive are dead; the living have no right to forget." - Chaim Herzog

few suggestions 1. call a attorney in a different state, location get advice 2. file an appeal 3. call judicial chambers, complain about judge abuse of power... 4. worse case you can go to another state with your child, i have no idea how old and file a emergency order. A state which does not otherwise have jurisdiction may enter a temporary emergency order, if the child is in danger and needs immediate protection. After issuing such order, the state court should determine if there is an existing custody order from another state in effect. this will at least buy you time

We're praying for you, grossot. This is devastating. I hope God helps you in this appalling situation.

*Just bumping up*

A couple of other things I thought of for grossot.... If they ask why she didn't come forward before she can say she was threatened...I'm sure at some point he's done it. Also GAL's aren't qualified to make decisions when other factors like abuse or psych issues come up. Make sure the GAL knows he/she will be personally responsible for any thing that happens to the daughter or others now that the issue has come to light. None of them like to have that responsibility so that could motivate them to look at things further. grossot, I'm praying for you and your daughter...

Barbara...that news just make me sick!!! Is she in the US? and if so where? She needs to call CHILDHELP USA. They specialize in child abuse. They'll have resources specifically for this. They were the ones that recommended the therapist for my daughter. She needs someone specializing in this area, child molestation. They will also tell her she needs to call CPS. or have someone call anonymously. Regardless of what it will look like to others, she needs to protect the child from further damage. I know she probably can't think straight but the more she can document and give to the police or CPS, the better. Did someone do a psych eval and if so on who?

Wonder if Domestic Violence could be of any assistance? Or Child Advocates? Somewhere near........but not in your town? Did you get to see the psych results? Did you guys have the psych evals? And I'd like to tell the assholes a little something... IF it's not illegal to bathe with your children of opposite sexes in a tub......after age 1, then it damned well should be! He's sick!

So sorry to hear this devastating news. This is unthinkable, please appeal and if possible can you get a new attorney from a neighbouring town perhaps? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ "The deeper that sadness carves into your being, the more joy you can contain." ~ Kahlil Gibran http://www.storyofmylife.com/KLARITY4

That will testify the inappropriate behavior the child has told her about her father! Tell her to record that SOB & try to get him to admit he's a sick twisted f**k! Oh that makes me so mad!!!

that's what i'd do.....pull the big Houdini.... “I do not bring forgiveness with me, nor forgetfulness. The only ones who can forgive are dead; the living have no right to forget." - Chaim Herzog

Appeal! Appeal! In the meantime, get your daughter and get the hell out of there!