He's contacting me and I don't know what to do or say

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#1 Dec 27 - 7PM
Lovely
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He's contacting me and I don't know what to do or say

I've really tried to be good with having NC. I've unfriended him and his family on FB and have ignored a few texts also over the past few weeks. Unfortunately for me I still have the chance of running into him because we have friends in common and who all of course think that he is absolutely amazing but that it beside the point right now.

He recently contacted me asking to meet and discuss things. Things that weren't really of concern to him while we were dating but now of course since he's probably lacking NS pretends to be concerned with. I will most likely see him later on next week, I'm actually positive that I will. I'm just wondering what the best way to respond to these messages would be. I would normally just ignore him but for some reason feel like I need to let him know that meeting up is not a good idea and not something that I want to do.

Any suggestions please?

PS I've become very familiar with how N's are so please understand that I see through these messages and I am NOT falling for his schemes again. I only want to know the best way to respond since I still have to see him from time to time.

Dec 29 - 4AM
unbreakable
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yup, agree with everyone

Dec 29 - 4AM (Reply to #37)
kollontai77
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I'd agree with this

Dec 28 - 1PM
Brit
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handle a narc

Dec 28 - 10AM
Goldie
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What is the arguement?

Dec 28 - 7AM
Deidre99
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Imagine for a moment, YOU

Dec 28 - 6AM
Used
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lovely

Dec 27 - 11PM
destiny (not verified)
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yes suggestion block him. if

Dec 27 - 10PM
Lovely
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I'm done

Dec 27 - 10PM (Reply to #30)
Hunter
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If you would only apply the

Dec 27 - 8PM
brinamarie
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My suggestion is u block him

Dec 27 - 8PM (Reply to #28)
Lovely
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Didn't think of him lashing out

Dec 27 - 8PM
kollontai77
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.

Dec 27 - 9PM (Reply to #26)
Lovely
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Thank you.

Dec 27 - 8PM
Laci423
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My suggestion

Dec 27 - 8PM (Reply to #22)
Lovely
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That's not going to happen

Dec 27 - 9PM (Reply to #23)
kollontai77
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.

Dec 27 - 10PM (Reply to #24)
Lovely
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No it's not like that

Dec 27 - 8PM
Janie53
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Lovely

Dec 27 - 8PM (Reply to #10)
Lovely
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It isn't that simple

Dec 27 - 8PM (Reply to #16)
Hunter
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YOU GOT THE ANSWER.. THE SAME

Dec 27 - 9PM (Reply to #17)
Lovely
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Relax

Dec 28 - 6AM (Reply to #20)
the next chapter
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I read your post, I do

Dec 27 - 9PM (Reply to #19)
Hunter
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The lights are on but nobody

Dec 27 - 9PM (Reply to #18)
Deidre99
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That's true...we all do heal

Dec 27 - 8PM (Reply to #14)
Janie53
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Lovely

Dec 27 - 9PM (Reply to #15)
Lovely
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Thank you

Dec 27 - 8PM (Reply to #11)
Laci423
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The only way he will leave

Dec 27 - 8PM (Reply to #12)
Lovely
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I felt attacked because

Dec 27 - 8PM (Reply to #13)
Hunter
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Lovely

Dec 27 - 7PM
Emma
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Why do you have to reply to