"I dont want to be an ant!"

Hi everyone

This is my first post although I have been lurking for a while, trying to educate myself on the traumatic experience I have been through the last two years. Second time around with this particular psycho/n. He said to me one time "I dont want to be an ant" to which I replied in a sarcastic tone "who are you the queen bee?" "no" he replied with a deadpan expression "I see myself as an eagle I am the looked upon" WTF!! Is this isn't a fullblown narcissitic/psycho then I don't know what is.

This idiot is nearly 43, lives with mommy dearest, has gone bankrupt, four kids have disowned him, ex-wife has disappeared to get away from him. He is a pathological liar, steals, cheats and the best bit he was incarcerated for a year for having sex with a 15yr old girl (son's girlfriend). All the while lying about why he was sent down. He is now on sex offenders register for ten years and he is on parole until July. His parole conditions say he cannot contact me in any way. He tried to hoover me a month after getting out of prison in July so I had to change numbers again. I will post my full story when I get my thoughts together.

Just wanted to say how awesome this forum is and how much everyone has been an inspiration to me including Hunter, Goldie, and Sparrow. You have made me realise I am not alone and it WAS NOT MY FAULT.

Hope everyone is having a good day today
Love and Hugsxx