"Layers of Deceit" - Lies, Lies and more Lies
"Layers of Deceit" - Lies, Lies and more Lies
Agnusmurphy will be able to relate to this. I know you have posted to many people that as more time passes, you see more and more layers of deceit. The lies are just so unbelievable.
Well, I have certainly seen that to be the case. And today's deceit that I discovered has made me feel dizzy all day long. I feel like my reality is so messed up and that I am so disoriented. This person who I considered my closest relationship for over 20 years... Every time a new lie surfaces it makes me question my last 20 years of reality.
Well, today was a doozy.. Thanks to facebook, all kinds of things can be learned.
About three years ago, N called me to talk about his sister's husbands' passing. The brother in law was 50...N's sister was driving their car on vacation. The BIL had a terminal illness and told her that if he had a heart attack, just let him die - don't take him to a hospital, because he just wants to die. So N calls to tell me that his sister called and talked to him on the entire 4 hour trip, while her husband was having a heart attack and that he died in the car... and he was "such a great big brother" for talking to her for that entire 4 hours to calm her down and support her. And then he flew out to Michigan for the funeral and to support her during the whole process. That she had four girls and it was going to be tough for her...but he is a great uncle to those four girls and will help them get through this.
We talked on the phone for 3 - 4 hours that day and the next while he basically made himself look like such a great guy for being so supportive during this tragedy.
Well, guess what? In my facebook browsing today... HIS SISTER'S HUSBAND IS STILL ALIVE! NOT ONLY THAT, BUT HE IS WORKING AT N's OLD COMPANY!!!!!!
OH - MY - GOD! How could he lie about that!???? Did he think I would never find out?!!!! And it wasn't a little lie - it was HOURS of conversation!!!!! Certainly he knew we would never be together long term...because that is not really a lie that you can cover up!
So have any of you felt this way? When you learn of enormous, pathological lies like this...that your reality is all messed up and you just feel dizzy???
I have felt like I am going to throw up all day long.
This is unreal.
If you stop facebook
OMG
Here's a funny one
LOMF
lol, what a bastard
I once wrote a topic
neverlookback
It's sick isn't it!!! Not
sorry for your new shock
Famous lies of famous Ns
Another of Tolstoy's lies
Wow!I can relate with my
definitely dizzy
DivorcingOneNow
loveofmylife
the need to look like a hero and living in the moment.
You got it!
Agnes - it is because they have a harem they can fall back on
Attraction
OF COURSE LOML I call it
SOI
Im not crying nearly as much
Yes, I am at work
More deceit
Loveofmylife