Spotting Narcs before they can do real damage?
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May 29 - 5AM
Spotting Narcs before they can do real damage?
After being brought up by a Narc father and severely ill mother, I've been a magnet for narcissistic personalities, both in romance and friendship. My 3 year (so far) vow of celibacy has protected me from male narcs, essential to get my head straight and avoid more suffering. However, I've just discovered that two "Friends" have strongly narcissistic traits, and am trying to distance myself from them as we speak.
Narcissism seems to look different in each person, and it can be really hard to suss it out, until devaluation/discard is well under way.
What are some strategies I can employ, to keep narcissistic people well away from me, where they can do no harm? Apart from becoming a hermit with my cat.
I answered this in your last post
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