When and what was your turning point during recovery that you accepted his/her disorder?
When and what was your turning point during recovery that you accepted his/her disorder?
I'm curious to the turning point. Was it one specific thing? What did you tell yourself? What did you do to accept that he was disordered and stopped your cog/dis?
I still love this man. I loved him for a long time. I keep telling myself I didn't. I don't think that's true. I think that's denial. I think i keep telling myself that so that it will hurt less, but nothing works. It just hurts and what hurts, hurts.
I think whatever love is left over, amidst all the addiction, etc, is this idea that he is somehow human and can go on to have a happy marriage. This tells me I still have a way to go in acceptance.
This is very frustrating because I've been working my ass off in my recovery.
I may be wrong, but maybe NOT denying what I still feel and just taking more time to grieve is also what it takes to heal. I've read about this disorder till I'm blue in the face. The nagging question still lingers with me, I'm just able to narrow it down to two questions now.
Would you please share what it was that helped you to accept and see it and him for what it was? Thanks.
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