When tempted to break NC, what do you tell yourself?
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Aug 12 - 1AM
When tempted to break NC, what do you tell yourself?
Are there one liners that you tell or have told yourself
when you are tempted to break NC?
My favorites right now
(gleaned from the wisdom of site members) are:
Don't go and poke the hornet's nest.
Ignorance is bliss.
No good can come of it.
What do you tell yourself?
I also imagine how it would go if I broke NC. I know exactly how it would unfold, so I visualize it in my mind. As you can guess, it's never pretty.
Let's help each other and share ideas of what to do/think during those terrible, tempting, tortuous times when we (against all better judgement) want to break NC.
thanks
Interesting...Last night I
What I tell myself to stop from contacting him...
Journey on...
Journey
Everything you said here sums
I remember that my DIGNITY matters to me
I tell myself
Only if it's a prank and it's done right
Re: Adoette's Tempted to break contact post.
TovaBella
ruby01
Actually had a moment today
I remember
I've already said what I wanted to say, I'd be repeating myself
Soaper girl, this is perfect
Right now I'm telling myself
Prettpeeved
I just got involved with the same N for the second time.
What was I thinking? Because I have put myself back to the same point where I am blaming myself again. And for what?
I want to get rid of these feelings again.
Interesting way of turning it
He's a game Player
Wow, I could have written
lies
I tend to go over a timeline
"Scrambled Eggs" Or the "
These days no-contact has
SudentOfLife
List all the things they have done/said to you
layla
I have a dossier from the
dossier?
Dossier