Why is it so hard to let go?
Why is it so hard to let go?
I don't have the proper answer, I just know I clung on with my fingernails even after our final split, (which I wanted too). The one explanation I have is that it was familiar and yet I'm not afraid of new things generally.
I sunk so low whilst in the relationship, I was reduced to nothing before I would give up and admit it was not fixable. After the final break I prayed to God for help in getting him out of my life and yet I would have still given my right arm to have had a different outcome. What is this all about? I never realized how determined I could be at self destruction, because I knew he was toxic, but still didn't want to let go or give up on us. I had maybe 1 percent half happy and the rest misery with him, so I just knew it was wrong. Finally I threw in the towel, gave up all my fight and accepted it was never going to be. It took me a long while to get there and I don't know why apart from being conditioned to expect nothing and feeling like I loved him more than life. It wasn't love, it was slave worship.
Why do we cling on, always hoping for a happy ending?
Brit x
because letting go
Lots of great responses!
for me its hard to let go
mountain peace
mountain, it sounds like you have
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Thanks
Brit
Janie
Don't underestimate
I loved your comment "I never
I agree it's an addiction.. I
Like I have said to u in
Brit, I am so grateful
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In AA we have an expression
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My Thoughts
Exactly
From my upbringing, this is
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little girl
Little girl
Yes
Thanks!
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Brit I knew for a long time
Evergreen! Wow! Your comment
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Demonic by far!! It is not
An empath believes there is goodness in all people