Will He Be Different for Another Woman?
Will He Be Different for Another Woman?
Hi everyone!
I have to thank all of you for aiding my recovery with all of your topics, posts, words of wisdom to each other and the validation that comes from having shared the same path. It is so scary how they are all so much alike!
I'd like to ask for your help now - I feel that I am significantly over the Narc - not 100%, but pretty damn close! I just have one re-occuring thought that I can't shake - and I feel that it stops me from reaching that 100%.
Even though rationally, I know this would be hard for him to do, I just keep thinking that the next person he meets, he will become serious with and morph into a "normal", "loving" man who keeps his word, doesn't lie, isn't so selfish, isn't sexually perverted, etc. You probably see where I am going with this!
I think I feel this way because he completely romanticizes the only 2 serious relationships he's ever had in his life - goes on and on about how perfect they were - they were the loves of his life - he claims he was DEVASTATED when they left him, yada, yada, yada. Get this though, I happen to know that the 2 relationships only lasted a total of 6 months and he was totally hitting on me all throughout his last relationship. On top of that, just to give you an idea of his track record - the man has 3 children by 3 different baby mommas!! And he gave up his parental rights to the third as he was born with cerebral palsy - nice, huh?
I would so appreciate any advice you might be able to give me - if I can reconcile this in my head, I feel I will be on much more stable ground!
Hugs!!
Will the next give him what he wants?
How I'm certain they won't be
NeverAgain115
ditto for women narcs
Can't Thank You All Enough!
Vascetomy
NO
Journey on...
I think you answered your own
They don't change. They just
Ok. Given his track record
stayingstrong
Bookmarked!
Thanks heaps for posting this
Thank You!
He didn't make sacrifices for her
No
You're right!
I wonder the same thing sometimes Comfort me please!
{hugs}
Don't you just get so mad, you'd like to get a gun? MONEY!
Thank you Lobo555 (love your handle btw)
You are my sister
Soapergirl
Soapergirl
Its so frustrating that the parasite is residing in my head
That's So Sweet FINALLYFREE2BME
SoaperGirl
Thanks ShaynasMommy
SG, I was with my narc for
Common for a women be subservient - I'm sick of my life!