You can't reason with crazy...

I am suddenly understanding the crazy behavior of certain Narc family members. Unfortunately, I own a business with them and they have been bullying me, lying to me, and trying to intimidate me to agree with certain decisions.

I used to think they cared about me, because they were the only family I had. But if I say anything that goes against their wishes about the business, they dismiss and discredit me--even call me names. When I am submissive to their needs, they reward me with their love and attention. It's such a sick, conditional relationship.

I want to get a lawyer to defend my business rights, since they do not even acknowledge my vote anymore. I am starting to realize that you can't reason with crazy. The only way to deal with these people is through the legal system. Their craziness is bringing out the anger in me, because it is so unjust, but

But everytime I try to stand up for myself, they tell me I have no right to be angry and that I am negative. It's OK for them to abuse me, but if I stand up to them abusing me and taking advantage of me, I am suddenly the bad egg with the problem. (Just like the exN made me feel).

Has anyone else experienced this? I am naturally insecure, so I start to question that maybe I AM wrong to get mad at people who are clearly taking advantage of me.