What to do when you find out your Mother is a Narc
What to do when you find out your Mother is a Narc
I have been a member on this forum for over 3 years..had a brutal 'relationship' with a Psychopath/N,,and only way I was able to fully revover was because of the love support and understanding of this site and the many intelligent contributors and members here!!!!
Anyway,,it is becoming quite clear to me that many of my pains and abuse during childhood was inflicted upon me by my mother who it is now dawning on me that she may a Narc, someone who physically, emotionally, spiritually, psychologically abused me while growing up, and still does to this day, not physically however it is through snide comments to me "I don't like who you are voting for" and other 'splitting' and devisive behaviors, such as talking about me behind my back to my sister in law, who is more than eager to chime in how foolish I am for buying expensive cheese as a gift to my family as a treat and oh, is she up to that spending again, she could get 3 times that amt of cheese at cosco...wow they say whispering about me, well I was in the other room and could hear all their comments...
For lack of a better term, it really sucks when you find out your mother does and continues to treat you like this, and don't get it.
It is cruel, and she seems to be passive aggressive as my brother says, and it seems like it is getting worse and more pronounced with age.
Has anyone here encountered the same thing...how did you deal with it!
Hello... In the midst of my
My mum is a narc
Tori- It is not too late!
HI Amazed
Amazed
My mother is a NARC too!
petite7heaven
hello truth begins today! long post
WOW! petite..this is so helpful
Your right!
Truth
Janie,
Remember
Truth
Petie--it is so good to hear from you!!! WOW
hello amazed!
Same
Ive only just found out myself
I didn't
IB
Janie
Realizing
Pumpkin
My Ma....
Wish I could be of more help
I went LC with my mother
My mother is the same way
Amazed
Janie, you are amazing in your realizations! And profound!
Amazed
Brene Browns Ted talks posted--I will check it out!