I'm really not mad at the gf. She has no idea what in the world she's getting herself into. She'll learn the hard way just like we all do. I just don't want to hear about how happy they are.
You've been dealing with this for 15 years??? I just can't imagine. I honest to God think I will end up in some kind of psyco ward if I have to deal with him much longer. Nothing in my life drives me more insane than he does. How long how you been away from him?
The crazy part is that he keeps landing on his feet. I have opportunity after opportunity to have him fired from his job and I didn't do it. That either makes me a decent person or just stupid. He got laid off in July and I begged every Senior Manager I could think of to bring him back. They only brought him back to work because of ME! 2 weeks ago when he had D&D me I saved his job AGAIN. Crazy!
Well ill give you the short version. My story is not posted honestly its just too hard plus I'm married.
The narc and were acquaintences in hs he went to a neighboring hs and was the most popular. We were supposed to go on a date but it never materialized. Anyway sr yr of college we start dating slowly as I had a serious boyfriend at the time but I couldnt get narc out of my head so I break up with him for narc. We start dating exclusively and we both go to work for the same firm which I helped him get the job. All was well and then I got pregnant and lost the baby afterwards everything went back to normal but I always suspected he was cheating and I finally caught him in which he begged for forgiveness so I took him back. Anyway he ended taking up with a girl at work and it. Zcrushed me literally I ended up quitting my job and I think it kept me from a total break down.
After that we saw eachother a few times but it wasn't the same for me or for him and two weeks after the last time I saw him I met my husband and we were engaged 4 months later. When he found out I was about to be married he called to wish me well but also asked if I would have dinner with him. A couple of years after I married we ran into him at the county fair. The look on his face was so sad it was like someone kicked him in the stomach. We didn't speak.
Now ten years later, I get on fb and I look him up as I'm curious to see his family. Well there was no family. He never married and he's very very good looking and completely ripped. Anyway that when the seduction began not quite a year and half ago. He told me he always loved me and was so happy to have another chance with me and he's talking about were gonna live etc.. Then one day he turned funny and started being cold and distant and you know how the rest goes....
So you see they really do come back 15 years later
sorry for all the typos and disjointed sentences. I was typing on my phone and I had just taken one of my sleeping pill LOL but I think you get the idea.
I left out alot of stuff but thats generally what happened
sick of it
Well ill give you the short
Sara