Did your N tell you much about his past?
Did your N tell you much about his past?
I have been thinking about my 3 year marriage to my N.
I realized I don't know much about his past. I think that it is strange but I don't really know him and I have been with him for a while.
He was never open to talk about his past. Not his childhood, not even about his relationships with his siblings. He knew everything about my childhood and past but I knew nothing and he wasn't willing to share.
He did tell me once that he was sexually abused by his babysitter at the age of 5. He told me he was told to perform oral on her. This continued for a while. But he didn't act like it bothered him that this had happened to him. He said that he must have been really irresistible even as a child. I thought he was joking when he said this but now I know he probably wasn't.
I talked to his cousin once and she told me a lot of things that she knew about is childhood. When I came to him and asked him questions indirectly trying to see if he would tell me the same he was not willing to answer them or just flat out denied everything. I know his cousin would not lie about such things that were told to me.
I just wonder if this happened in any of you guys relationships. Did you know much about your N's past, childhood? Was he open to talk about his past relationships? Was he really secretive?
Kinda
Aimee
Nope feel like I never knew him
I am feeling the same way. I
My ex was definitely
Mine was the King of Not Enough Information
Yes when i tried to find out
The light went on!
OMG I just remembered that
I was never given any information about his childhood
His past seems to fall into 3
OMG
Yeah someone is always crazy
Mine more-or-less constantly yowled
spot on
Ah yes, the colleagues of the narc
Funny how everyone is crazy,
LMAO...I love the sarcasm in
Yes, but all Sympathy Inducing Crap
They want you to know what they want you to know
ROFLMAO!
Luna you have no idea how
yes, everything was tragic
Wow that was smart of you. I
Ha! If I was smart, I would
Mystery in Massachusetts
"A common Narc trait is
Who I got compared to...
He never stopped telling me
Your guy did that too?